Men often say that they all need to have a gentle and wise wife, a sexy and seductive lover, and a thoughtful and caring beauty. Previously, I thought men were too greedy, but later on, I realized that everyone is greedy, and it is difficult for a woman in this world to fulfill multiple roles. Moreover, many times, as a wife, a woman cannot give a man the passion of a lover, As lovers, women maintain brotherly friendships with men. However, whether it can be achieved or not is another matter. In fact, why didn't a woman ever want to have a dedicated husband, a charming lover, and a blue face as magnanimous as a brother? It can even be said that women actually need to have a lover more than men.
Most women are emotional, fond of fantasy, and like to pursue things that are unrealistic in the eyes of men. Before marriage, men usually do things that make women happy in order to please them. However, after marriage, they start to pretend to be crazy and foolish, and the romances they once had come to an end with the arrival of marriage. Men believe that after marriage, they should live a good life, and what is the use of those empty things? But women are different. Even when they reach the age of losing all their teeth, their eyes will shine when they see a large bundle of bright red roses. Even when they become grandparents, they hope that men can often say "I love you". However, men seem to have amnesia and do not remember that women are romantic animals, which often makes women slowly despair in hope.
Women are auditory animals, and they always hope to receive recognition and praise from the men they love. However, after getting married, men become increasingly silent. They only care about whether the woman has prepared the food when they return home, but they forget all about the uncomfortable words the woman said in the morning. And men who are lovers are never stingy in praising women. They are considerate to ask you to have a good rest, and even won't forget to cook a bowl of Congee for you, and slowly cool it for you to eat. Women are naturally fond of shopping and have no resistance to new clothes. However, as the husband, the man always frowns and says, 'Why did women buy clothes again?'? But the man who is the lover is different. He will carefully help you see if it fits and if the color is suitable, and then take the initiative to pay for you.
I still remember watching a movie where a beautiful wife put on lace black pajamas brought to her by friends from France after taking a shower, hoping to catch the attention of her husband who hadn't brought her passion for a long time. However, she sat in front of him for a long time, and he didn't notice how sexy and beautiful her wife was this night. When his wife couldn't help but ask him, didn't she notice any difference? He only looked up and saw the sexy pajamas on her, but instead of embracing her as his wife had hoped, he asked her, 'This pajama is so beautiful. How much did he buy it for?'? The wife was like being poured cold water on her head and switched back to her usual pajamas. The ending of this movie can be imagined. My wife has found a lover who can bring her passion. Whether she is wearing a professional suit or sexy pajamas, he will constantly praise her and give her a stormy love.
In fact, that husband does not love his wife. From his diligent work every day and his efforts to make his beautiful wife better off, it can be seen that he loves her very much. But he doesn't understand that women don't just need material satisfaction. He ignores women's spiritual needs. Imagine which woman can tolerate being ignored by her own man? But most men who become husbands suddenly become reality. They believe that romance is waste, and their goal is to turn women into yellow faced women. They always undermine women's love for beauty. They are not like lovers but more like family members, but what women want is love. Marriage without love is just a cup of plain water.
All love that enters marriage will die. No wonder some women sigh that it would be great to have a lifetime of love. However, marriage is always a necessity in life, and there is no eternal love. When love dies in marriage, women need to seek a lover to fill this gap. If a man seeks a lover for physiological stimulation, then a woman seeks a lover more for a long lost heart. A man seeks a lover for bed, while a woman sometimes only seeks spiritual satisfaction. A lover can give a woman a feeling that her husband cannot give. But men are all selfish. They can fly flags, but they demand that women never end up being the same. However, men, if your woman is looking for a lover, don't be too busy getting angry first, find reasons from yourself first. Why does that once innocent woman, the woman who believes you will bring her happiness for a lifetime, no longer love you?