Post Date December, 03 2023
In life, learn to forget those who don't like you
In this world, there are always people you don't like, and there are always people who don't like you. This is all very normal. Moreover, no matter how good you are or how good the other person is, they are always demanding of each other. Because whether it's good or not is one thing, liking it or not is another matter.
Deliberately trying to please others can only undermine one's own dignity. Don't trade countless bends for an indifferent low brow. What comes in exchange for condescending to high status will only result in the other party becoming increasingly condescending and bossing. Without eye contact, there will never be equality.
Don't distinguish between good and bad people based on whether you like them or not. With an emotionally inclined perspective, it is inevitable to fall into narrowness. Biting people, you can't say it's a bad dog. Dogs always bite people, which is their nature and mission. That is to say, while staring at others, one should also see their own flaws and shortcomings.
Of course, ultimate liking is more like a reunion between one self and another in time. Willing to bloom without reason for the other party, and being hopelessly devoted to the other party are all extreme likes. At this point, if we only say that our temper, taste, and character are similar or similar, it is just shallow joy; The deepest love is love, which is the attachment and attraction within life, the persistence and deep affection in the soul.
This is a mysterious and grand privatization process. The meaning of privatization is that even if it is infinitely wrong, it is infinitely correct. Sometimes, your countless glances may not necessarily see one passing by. Sometimes, taking out an angel's heart does not necessarily result in an angel's courtesy.
If the other party doesn't like it, they are too lazy to pretend to be an angel for you once. No one needs to improvise. Although temporary hypocrisy can soothe and intoxicate people, it will eventually leave behind lingering pain and perfunctory wounds.
So, the most foolish thing in this world is to run to someone you don't like and ask why. If you don't like it, you don't like it anymore. There's no reason. Just like a gust of wind passing by, what you need to do is to pat the dust on your body and turn around quietly to walk away. Then, forget the person who doesn't like you silently.
A person, living in this world, must live for the people who like themselves. This is the best attitude. Don't lose happiness with those who don't like you, and then forget happiness with those who like you.
Don't chase things that are barely achievable. When you are tired of it, perhaps the other person is also the most tired. You stop, you put it down, and eventually you will find that the sky will not collapse, and the world will always be shrouded in auspicious clouds for everyone.
Everyone is thumping in the mud of the secular world. Some people are born to love you, while others are destined to teach you. What you have worked hard on is something that the other party doesn't care about; What you hate deeply is what the other person takes for granted. Between liking and not liking, there is either stubbornness or twisting. However, this is life, with intimate warmth and piercing coldness, just to make your life more rich and complete.
In the vast expanse of life, there will always be one or several auspicious clouds winding around for you. Instead of struggling with people you don't like or dislike, it's better to take a happy walk under these few auspicious clouds. Don't have so many pleasant things in the world, just one flower is enough.
