Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage constrains you from interacting freely with others. But marriage comes together based on love, money, and other different purposes. It is precisely in this way that after marriage, there will be one after another trials and tribulations. In the face of these successive tests, do you have enough courage to overcome them, and do you take appropriate measures to save the marriage. How can we use virtue to save a turbulent marriage?
Maintain your nature
The biggest mistake in life is to easily change oneself, change one's confidence, change one's beliefs, and make oneself seem completely unrecognizable due to being looked down upon by others. The reason for this is because they are unwilling to persist in being themselves. Unable to find the true self, so young people are lacking in vicissitudes. If there are too many things to see, many things will naturally be underestimated. As time goes by, you will find that you have actually lost yourself. If you don't care so much and be yourself bravely, you won't hurt yourself. People first need to learn to know themselves, find themselves, and be brave enough to be themselves.
Silence is a virtue, and silence is cultivation
Marriage is in crisis, and many sad things, not to mention wisdom. Being hurt by others is not only a kind of kindness, but also the warmth and coldness of emotions. Time will provide the best proof. Being slandered by others is not only a form of cultivation, but also the quality of character. Time will provide the best clarification. Since there has been a crisis in your marriage, it is also a disaster that you have encountered. Only by keeping yourself calm and silent can you avoid the problem becoming more rigid. The people we truly deserve to treat well in this life are the ones who are by our side. Because as life ages, each one will leave us. Only by living happily and healthily can we accept the gift of a happy life.
Learn to ignore small things and focus on the big picture
In marriage, both parties inevitably have right and wrong. The height of life is not because of how many things you see clearly, but because of how many things you underestimate. Many things often do not lie in the things themselves, but in our attitude towards them. So, learn not to care about small things, so that you can have the energy to do other things you want to do. Marriage cannot be separated from the mutual support of two people, and the difficulty lies in the years when they first blend in. As you grow older and more knowledgeable, you will understand that past events are fleeting. In life, you must learn to accept and let go in order to control the overall situation.
Understand how to use tolerance and time to resolve current difficulties
How can one use tolerance to save their marriage when it is in a difficult situation? Perhaps you are very tired now, but no matter how tired you are, the damage caused by a broken marriage is greater. If you are still somewhat dependent on marriage and don't understand the difficulties and confusions in life, then it's better to be tolerant and leave the problems to time to resolve the current difficulties. In this lifetime, as long as one has a clear conscience, the rest is left to time to prove. Because there is nothing that cannot be criticized, and there is no one who cannot be criticized. As long as you take care of your conscience when doing something, do it yourself well. You don't need others to participate too much in your life.
This life always becomes clearer and clearer as one lives. Even if the current marriage is difficult, looking back many years later, it will still be a breeze. So, one must learn to remain silent, to shut up when it's time to do so, to learn not to care about small things, to learn to use tolerance and time to resolve current difficulties, in order to achieve the success of marriage in this lifetime.
