I went to the supermarket to buy vegetables with a big belly, and when I passed by the door of the hotel and saw my husband making love to a woman, I was so angry that my child almost ran away.

When I was 25 years old, I was introduced by a matchmaker and met my husband. At the age of 26, I successfully married myself out. On the wedding day, the atmosphere was lively and joyful. He led me down the red carpet. At that moment, I felt very happy. I secretly resolved to cherish our feelings and take care of the family with my heart. After the romantic wedding, everything returned to normal life.

Marriage is not as sweet as ideal. For the sake of this family, my husband comes out early and comes back late every day, and we have little communication. "One year after my marriage, I became pregnant, and he obeyed my orders. When I met someone, I decided to be my own father. I could feel his excitement.". During the early stages of pregnancy, I was particularly tired, and combined with pregnancy reactions, I felt very difficult. If you are not feeling well, your mood will become unstable, and there will be more and more complaints about your husband.

At first, he followed me, but over time, he became impatient, quarrelled with me, slammed the door, and sometimes didn't come back in the middle of the night. "I was so angry that I cried and cried all day long. My mother-in-law knew that we had quarrelled and disagreed, so she came to persuade her husband and taught him to let me know that it was not easy for a woman to get pregnant, so she was careful not to move the fetal gas.". After listening to his mother-in-law's advice, he communicated well with me, and our lives returned to normal. He is more considerate to me than before and walks with me in his spare time.

"He has regained his caring for me, and I naturally won't be bad for him.". "I'm pregnant and waiting for delivery at home, and I have plenty of time. If I have nothing to do, I'll go for a walk and buy some vegetables for him to cook dinner at night.". "When I was six months pregnant, I felt like I had a lot of trouble walking. The doctor said it would be good for my child to let me move more.". At this time, my husband has more and more dinners and often eats together late. Every time I come back full of alcohol, I feel quite annoyed.

When I'm upset, I shift my attention, watch TV, listen to songs, and cook something to eat. Some time ago, I was on a whim to see the food variety show on TV and wanted to try it out. I made an appointment with a friend to take me to the supermarket to buy ingredients. It was this sudden decision that made me thoroughly understand my husband. After buying the ingredients, we were ready to go back. Passing by the hotel opposite the supermarket, my friend was stunned and pointed towards the door of the hotel. I followed her direction and saw a familiar figure, holding a woman in her arms, showing off her love at the door of the hotel.

At that moment, I seemed petrified, and that person was my husband. After regaining my composure, they were already walking towards me. I shouted out my husband's name, perhaps as a sign of guilt. When he heard someone calling him, he quickly threw away the hand holding the woman's waist and followed the source of the sound. When he saw me, he nervously ran to me to explain to me.

"I couldn't hear a word. I pointed at the woman and asked her who she was. As I spoke, I moved forward and tore her apart. The woman looked at my stomach, with a look of disgust on her face, and gently dodged for a moment. I stumbled unsteadily and fell, causing a sharp pain in my stomach.". "My friend screamed in terror, and my husband panicked and hugged me to the hospital.". "I passed out in pain and woke up in a daze. I heard the doctor say, 'If we deliver it later, both adults and children will be at risk.'". My husband put his hands together and thanked the doctor.

"This time, because he opened a room with a woman, we almost lost our child.". "For this reason, he was very remorseful and kept paying attention to me, apologizing to me, explaining that it was the woman he met during his business trip, and that he had made such a mistake that he had done me wrong. He would carefully review himself, pay for his mistakes, and ask me to forgive him.". My tears kept flowing, and I couldn't argue with him at all. I'm in a mess. If I don't have children, everything would be easy to say. Now that I have children, I'm struggling and have lost confidence in my marriage. Where should I go?

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

During pregnancy, a woman's husband has a high chance of cheating. First, women's emotional instability can lead to disharmony in the family atmosphere, and quarrels and disagreements can lead to estrangement between husband and wife; Secondly, men need physical venting. Once there is a gap between husband and wife, men are prone to distraction. During pregnancy, women can be flirtatious, but they should pay attention to discretion. If they only focus on their own emotional venting, regardless of the feelings of others around them, it is easy to antagonize the other party and exacerbate conflicts.

"Now that your husband has had a relationship with a third party and was caught by you, it almost leads to tragedy.". Now that he has realized the seriousness of the matter, he constantly reflects, repents, and only asks for your forgiveness. A man who cheated during his wife's pregnancy is really unacceptable, but you need to ask your heart if he is willing to correct it, can you give him a chance again?

If you cannot persuade yourself, it is recommended not to force yourself, let alone choose to forgive because of an unborn child. If you cannot overcome that pitfall in your heart, the environment for your child's growth will not be good in the future. I suggest you choose carefully and wish you happiness.