I often go on business trips and my wife seeks comfort from massaging the opposite sex

I am 34 years old this year and have been engaged in relatively difficult work. I have been working outside for a long time and cannot care about my wife. I came home from a business trip and found that my wife had applied for a massage card.

I was curious and requested to go to the massage room with my wife.

Unexpectedly, my wife refused to do anything, so I secretly went to the massage room to investigate and found out that they were all male masseurs.

I was very unhappy in my heart, so when I came back, I had a big argument with my wife. The wife said, "You are not at home, I am lonely, and I don't want to cheat, so I asked for a massage from the opposite sex for psychological comfort.". Please help relieve it. thank you!

Reply:

Nowadays, young people, including some middle-aged people, have a lot of life pressure. Especially for people born in poverty who work and live in cities, the high housing prices put great pressure on them. Snail houses and house slaves are everywhere. This will seriously affect the quality of marriage.

Some ambitious young people choose jobs such as sales, which earn more money. However, this determines that couples gather less and leave more. This is very painful for women. I don't want my husband to go on business, I don't know which day I can stay in the house, and I have to face loneliness when my husband goes on a business trip.

Some women not only yearn for the care and care of men to end their loneliness, but also dare not take a step beyond the limits. Unable to do so, I mistakenly chose a male massage that could not only come into contact with men but also avoid cheating.

From a psychological perspective, being able to understand these. After all, the care and concern of the opposite sex cannot be provided by the same sex. However, from the perspective of marriage ethics, this is not wise.

I think you should help your wife find some entertainment. For example, group dances and choirs in the park. All of these can be fully participated in without any risks. At the same time, it is also possible to cultivate hobbies in literature and other fields to pass time.

At the same time, you should always care for and take care of your wife. This doesn't necessarily require being together, a phone call, a gift, all of which can actually move a woman. What women really need is not the value of gifts, but the sincere care of their men.

Nowadays, there are many fraudsters, and once women fall into emotions, they find it difficult to extricate themselves. So, you also need to protect your family's financial management. Otherwise, it's very likely that if you work hard outside and your wife impulsively spends money on other men at home, you'll become a big loser.

(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)