I noticed a woman outside my husband and set a trap to beat her up. He kicked me out of the house

My husband and I got to know each other through introductions. Before him, I had several romantic relationships, either due to personality differences or issues with the dowry. After a few encounters, I lost interest in getting married. Later on, I met my husband and felt that he had a similar personality and family background. Within three months, we got engaged and got married a year later. I want to live a peaceful and stable life, with a husband and a child, so I am not sensitive to having children and it is better to let nature take its course.

After getting married, my husband rented a storefront in the city, and the two of us started our small business together. I am not a delicate woman. Regardless of the dirty and tiring work in the store, I am at ease. I tidy up in an orderly manner, and my business is doing quite well. My mother-in-law always praises me, Wang Fu. In the second year after marriage, I became pregnant and had poor physical fitness. I stayed in my hometown to have a baby and occasionally went to the city to visit my husband. During this period, we are in a situation of gathering less and leaving more.

In October, I was pregnant and gave birth to a baby. As a daughter, my traditional mother-in-law became unhappy and had a clearly negative attitude towards me. During the confinement period, my mother-in-law had a lot of opinions about my daughter, and almost didn't take the initiative to help me. I was also too lazy to call on her. My husband was busy taking care of both the store's business and me. My resentment towards my mother-in-law grew stronger and stronger, and when I confided in him, he became impatient.

When the child is older, I want my mother-in-law to help me take care of it, so I can go and do business with my husband. My mother-in-law couldn't refuse, but she was very unwilling. I got so angry that I had a big argument with her and led the child into the city, taking care of the child while managing the business. It was very difficult. After the conflict between my mother-in-law and me deepened, I had several arguments with my husband over her affairs. I feel hopeless in life, so I took my daughter back to my mother's house and left my husband to live alone.

He didn't pick me up, I didn't go down the steps, so I stayed at my mother's house. My mother has repeatedly advised me to go back and live a good life, but I stubbornly refused. My mother even said, 'I'll help you take care of your child, and you'll take care of his business.'. I couldn't resist my mother. I went, but my husband's attitude towards me was clearly not as enthusiastic as before, and he was very indifferent. I began to suspect that during my absence, he had an affair.

Sure enough, I found a photo of a woman on his phone, and on WeChat chat, I saw her avatar. I couldn't see the chat record, so it should have been deleted. Afterwards, I cautiously grabbed his handle. Kung Fu is not for everyone, and this woman has finally shown her face. That day, my husband told me he was going to meet a client, and I secretly followed him and saw the woman on his phone. The two of them were very close and didn't seem to have a cooperative client relationship at all.

I couldn't calm down anymore, and my anger slowly rose in my heart. I thought of using my husband's phone and sending a text message to ask her out. Although I wasn't sure, I still did it. That woman is also foolish enough to attend the appointment without even being sure, without any vigilance. It shows that they often meet, and she already trusts my husband very much. So, I arranged with a few good sisters, took her to a deserted place, beat her up, and soon my husband discovered her. He was furious with me, calling me a shrew, not admitting to cheating, and insisting that they were in a cooperative relationship. I shouldn't be so rude.

I'm not a vegetarian either. I took out my phone and showed him the photos of their date that day. My surveillance footage angered her, packing my things and throwing them out, asking me to get lost wherever I came from. His behavior surprised me. I only taught a third party a lesson in destroying someone else's family, and he treated me like this. I ran back to my mother's house aggrieved. My mother asked me about the situation, but I was ashamed not to tell her.

I have been staying at my mother's house for a month now, and my husband has been hesitant to come and pick me up. Should I go back? If he and a third party are happy together again, where should I go?

reply:

Your situation is very obvious, from the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to the conflict between husband and wife. When there is a gap between husband and wife, it is easy for outsiders to intervene. Two people have a disagreement, and you choose to avoid it and use cold violence to make him reflect. However, at this point, you overlook the temptation outside, which can easily prompt your husband to fall into it. You violently attacked a third party and angered your husband because your evidence cannot convince him. He will magnify the fact that you are following him infinitely, thinking that you are making trouble for no reason. At this point, you have once again chosen to escape to your mother's house and let him reflect on himself, which is simply not feasible.

When encountering things, one must face them firmly. Only with full confidence can one make them speechless. If you return to your own home now, your departure will not have any effect, it will only provide an opportunity for a third party to take advantage of it. Communicate well and speak frankly. If you really can't make it through, there's no need to force it. However, if there's a misunderstanding between them, you still need to grasp it well and unravel the knot. Right or wrong, weigh carefully and don't be impulsive.