I ignored my family's opposition to marrying my husband in a flash, and seeing him making out with women left my mind blank.

For a newly graduated student, I have just arrived in this city, filled with enthusiasm and intent on developing my own career. However, the restlessness and impetuosity of big cities have left me unable to cope with them. Faced with the heavy traffic, expensive rent, and the little salary I get every month, my entire life is going to collapse. Dreams and reality are simply far apart. "Girls my age have basically found suitable partners, and my best friend often says to me, 'Why bother working so hard? Marry a good man and still have a good life.'".

"I am not as shallow as she is, but the thought of my hard work in exchange for unequal treatment makes me feel a sense of loss.". I felt even more nervous and lonely until he appeared

In a vast crowd, I met him from a social network and they chatted very well. I took this stranger I had never met as my only confidant, and told him the unpleasant things in my heart like taking out garbage. My anxiety and loss, comforted by him, began to subside. Having shaken off these psychological burdens, I began to face my setbacks bravely. Strange to say, since I met him, my work has started to improve, and I get along well with my colleagues. More importantly, I have been valued by my boss.

"My affection for him multiplied, and I couldn't wait to make an appointment.". When I first met him, he was mature and steady, yet shy and gentle. The first time I met him, we established our relationship as boyfriends and girlfriends, and then we quickly fell in love. It was too sweet to be sweet. After three months of dating, I obtained a marriage certificate with him without telling my parents, but we didn't have a wedding. A marriage certificate tied us together. After my mother learned about it, she flew into a rage at me and said, "How can I easily give happiness to others?"? "I didn't listen to my mother's words and resolutely lived with my husband. My mother was so angry that she didn't speak to me.".

The days after marriage are very sweet. I originally thought that as long as we worked hard, the two of us could establish a foothold in the big city and make those who don't like me look up to me with new eyes. But I didn't expect that this sweetness lasted only three months before he cheated. On his mobile phone, he chats with various women and flirts casually. On the street, he can hug women and kiss them without covering up. What's disgusting is that he also has a one-night stand with a bar girl.

After being discovered by me, I scolded him and beat him to no avail. Later, he hastily cleaned up and left the house we rented together. It only took us half a year from getting married to getting divorced. "I have no face to face my parents, and I am even more confused about my future path.". What should I do?

Please reply to the consultant:

Flash marriage is not surprising for young people. "It is understandable that two people are moving together, feeling like they are friends at first sight, and walking into the palace of marriage.". However, in a flash marriage, it is necessary to see the character of the other person clearly. Originally, two strangers are immature in any aspect. Choosing to marry is tantamount to gambling on their own happiness. If you bet well, the happiness of the whole family will be good, but if you bet badly, you will be left alone. Nowadays, your immaturity and excessive trust in feelings have led to negative marital consequences, and this kind of philandering man should not be ignored. The road is long, not because of one person but to the whole world. Face life with a smile, then you can continue to seek happiness.