Post Date December, 02 2023
However, he urinated again. When I woke up in the middle of the night, I found myself wet, disgusting and angry, so I kicked him up. He said he didn't know at all and apologized to me. I changed the mattress again and scolded him for sleeping in different beds. He knew that he was wrong, and was always silent and obedient. Although I was scolding him in anger at that time, I also regretted it later. Who wants to be such a big man.
I know that children wet the bed, and the elderly sometimes wet the bed, but he is only 25 years old. When will he wet? He explained that he had this disease after marriage. I can't believe it. He must have had this disease before.
I asked my mother-in-law, who was always looking for excuses. He and his wife are deliberately hiding something. My husband is very handsome, and he is good to me, but it is this problem that makes me extremely disgusted. He urinates in bed at least twice a month. I feel humiliated when I go to dry the wet quilt in the daytime. If a stranger enters the house, it will be even more frustrating.
I said that maybe you don't believe it. Once when he had sex, I didn't know he peed when he was excited. I hated him so much that I hit him in the face. He doesn't dare to contradict each other. He just stays aside and doesn't talk. I think he is very poor after seeing it. I asked him to go to the hospital, but he postponed saying it was okay. He said that he might be tired of working during the day, or drink too much water at night.
To be honest, I was careless and didn't pay attention to these details. I believe it twice, but after so many times, he must have a physical problem. I pulled him to go, and he said that he was humiliated and would go alone. Apart from bed-wetting, he is very strong. I haven't worried too much.
But last night, I lost sleep. I want to divorce before I have children. I regret it. At the beginning, we had only known each other for three months, and we talked about marriage. I was willing to marry him. His family conditions were good, he was honest, and he looked good. My parents also agreed, so they agreed to the marriage.
I'm only 21, four years younger than him. Although we had a wedding, we haven't registered for marriage because of the change of residence registration. I wanted to break up with him, but I was worried that his family would not let me go, and my parents could not return the betrothal gift. They had asked for 50000 yuan and had bought a house for my brother. What should I do?
Reply:
Adults often wet the bed, which should be paid attention to. Your husband can't have this problem because he is married. He must have been checked and treated before, or else he would not have such calm. It may be that the effect is not ideal, or he doesn't care about this disease.
Now that you have chosen to marry him and found this problem, you should learn to help him and understand him on your own initiative instead of just complaining and ridiculing. That would hurt your feelings.
You two are married before falling in love. You can also see that you like him, but you can't accept his defect. I can only say that you are still young and not very sensible. If one spouse has an accident and the other chooses to divorce in order to escape, does that seem too inhuman? Of course, marriage law is not allowed. If he does have problems in all aspects of physiology, and deliberately cheat, you are determined to break up. Of course, the law will protect your rights and interests through proper channels.
However, I personally feel that he has no major problem, and bed-wetting will cure him. If you love him and you have feelings before, you must accompany him to the hospital and encourage him. I wish you happiness!
