Post Date December, 02 2023
Q:
After eight years of love with my wife, I think I really shouldn't have made such a mistake. I feel deeply unforgivable myself. It's difficult to go back to the past, I know, but I really want to go back to the past.
Once upon a time, as long as my wife was at home after work, and her work unit was close to home, I could smell the aroma of the food when I arrived home. My wife's craftsmanship was very good, and I miss those days. It's really strange to live like this every day without feeling it. It's only when I lose it that I feel uncomfortable in my heart and yearn for this ordinary life.
"Another woman I used to know for a long time and had an affair at the beginning of my acquaintance, but she was a social flower type woman. Eventually, I didn't get together with her, but there were occasional contacts.". When we were married to our wife for the fifth year, we had a major dispute over whether to have children or not. My wife wanted to have another child after the age of 30, but I think that would be an elderly woman who couldn't accept her concept. The two of us were angry with each other, and during this period of stalemate with my wife, she re-entered my life.
She behaved as she had in the past, being considerate. I was shaken at that time. Anyway, cheating is a fact, but I really didn't want to betray. If it comes to the choice of a wife, there will definitely be no one else. It can only be my wife, and it is impossible to replace someone else.
But now no matter how I explain or apologize, my wife won't listen. "When I go home, my wife comes home later than I do. She doesn't get home until 11:12, or if she simply doesn't go home, ask her where she's gone. She'll just let me handle it. Whatever she says, she can get involved in my affair.". "I'm very tired, and I feel like I can't go back to my wife, nor can I bring her back to her former state.". "The third person is still contacting me, and I regret it very much now. I just want to break up with her completely and return to my original life..."
Answer:
Misconduct is not an unintentional loss, it is an active behavior. You expect your wife to forgive you and let go in the short term. After all, it is difficult.
Perhaps in your opinion, an apology is sincere enough, but it is still a drop in the bucket to make up for the emotional harm she has suffered. At present, let's help you break away from your relationship with a third party. On the wife's side, we can help you coordinate. In the future, no matter what problems your marital relationship may encounter or what conflicts arise within your husband and wife, you should face them squarely instead of choosing to escape outside of marriage. You have already seen the consequences and should take a warning.
