Post Date December, 03 2023
After marriage, my husband and I have been living a happy and prosperous life. But last year, a Korean boss who collaborated with his husband suddenly ran away with money, and almost all the money invested by his husband went to waste. Fortunately, there was still a factory and some equipment left behind, and it was only after the sale that 70% of the loss was recovered. But my husband stopped working from then on, saying he was afraid of the pitfalls in the workplace and didn't want to interact with people. Just stay at home all day.
Seeing that my husband and 28 year old nanny are both at home, I don't have to worry too much about my son. I often go shopping with my best friend during my break. But one day when he came back, his son said he wanted to tell me a secret. When he went to the bathroom, he saw his father kissing a piece of clothes hanging in the bathroom and asked me if he could also kiss my clothes.
My head suddenly exploded because the bathroom only aired a pair of nanny thongs. I don't intend to promote this matter, I want to secretly observe my husband and nanny, and I haven't seen anything out of the ordinary about them.
But once, while my husband was entering the bathroom, I secretly opened the door with the key and found him suddenly standing there, his hands seemed to be grabbing something, while the nanny's thong was lying on the ground, which made me very disheartened. You said, what should I do in such a situation?
Reply:
Hello, your husband clearly has a serious psychological quirk. This should be related to the stimulation he received in his business. You said that he used to have an outgoing personality, but now he rarely interacts with people due to heavy business losses. So he is undoubtedly very depressed and unable to find a breakthrough, as he stays at home all day and can only contact you and the nanny, who is more fresh and exciting for him. But due to his experience of business deception, he dared not approach the nanny casually, so he started with her clothes. This is very likely.
Of course, in the long run, it will cause more hidden dangers. So, I suggest you take your husband for a formal psychological consultation and first open his heart. As for the nanny, it's best to support her in the near future and not give her any chance to meet your husband. Wait for your husband's emotions to fully recover before continuing to hire a nanny. Also, as his wife, it's best for you to spend more time with him, talk confidences with him, engage in some spiritual communication, and also accompany him to go out more, visit familiar friends' homes, and provide him with various care, so that he can recover faster. Also, your child should be guided to do the right things to avoid being misled by unhealthy behavior. I wish you a happy life!
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
