Post Date November, 16 2024
It is said that marriage is the tomb of love. Many women yearn for a passionate love affair, but are full of anxiety and fear towards the marriage after the love affair. Whether it's pre marital fear or marital fear, they are actually not monsters that hinder happiness. From a different perspective, thinking ahead about these issues that make you afraid of marriage can help you face them early and find ways to adapt. So how should women adjust to their pre marital fear?
1. Lose oneself in marriage
Perhaps most of the time after marriage is spent in the world of two people, with only work and family left in life. In order to manage a family, they gradually lose their personal life, even their interests, hobbies, and personality, becoming a woman who revolves around him and Guotai.
Correct understanding: Marriage is a job that two people work together to manage, where either party will make changes and preserve their essence for the other. Through continuous adaptation and adaptation, the two eventually become the most suitable duo for mutual support. In addition to family and work, women should not forget their best friends. Whether for entertainment or seeking help, best friends will always provide you with the warmest and most reliable support.
2. I don't want to become like that couple in the future
Perhaps through hearsay, perhaps in real life, there are a pair of living examples around you that make you feel discouraged about marriage. The family is often filled with the smoke of war or even cold violence, or one party cheats... It can't help but make people doubt and worry about their future marriage life.
Correct understanding: It is these real-life living cases that can serve as our marriage life textbooks, taking warning from the issues contained in them, and thus avoiding the same mistakes in our own marriage. On the road that our predecessors have traveled, we can bypass rocks and large pits to reach our destination faster.
3. Finally, it was discovered that we are people from two different worlds
The bond between passionate love and honeymoon tends to dull after about three years of marriage, and disappears almost completely after seven years. The main focus of the family has shifted to the upbringing of the next generation, with few sweet words and intimate behaviors between couples, and even the two becoming increasingly independent and less reliant on each other.
Correct understanding: Couples during the stable period after marriage do have stronger independent behavioral abilities and can maintain good life operations without the need for each other. But this does not mean that the couple is getting further apart or even not belonging to the same world. On the contrary, their emotional dependence on each other is becoming stronger. It is precisely because I am too familiar with and accustomed to this feeling that I feel like there is nothing. In fact, this means that you have entered a more harmonious and harmonious realm of coexistence.
4. If I am sick, can he stay and take care of me.
Birth, aging, illness, and death are natural laws of human reproduction and reproduction, and no one can escape them. Once one party falls ill, especially if a woman falls ill, many women are very concerned about whether the other half can keep their promise and take on the responsibility of taking care of the woman without any regrets or shirking.
Birth, aging, illness, and death are natural laws of human reproduction and reproduction, and everyone must go through them. As a significant other, one must not wish to leave earlier than you.
