Couples experience a series of mood changes as they age and interact. Therefore, please do not consider marriage as a product of a safe deposit box. Smart women manage marriages, foolish women ruin them.
When interacting with people, one needs to ask why, and the same applies to couples. The term 'each other' is particularly important in marital relationships, so couples should not only focus on claims and forget to pay. As a married woman, if one day she is left out by her husband or her marriage is violated by a mistress, do not focus on her husband's indifference to herself, do not rush to scold the mistress, and examine her attitude towards marriage.
Extremely selfish and irritable
Women can bring various troubles to men when they are in love, with the premise of not expecting to marry this man, and at most, only completing the equivalent exchange of spending his money and giving his body. If a woman decides to marry a certain man, don't go wild during the romantic phase. Otherwise, after a few years of marriage, when you become a yellow faced woman, your husband will use that person's path to give back to that person.
Couples need to understand each other, be tolerant, warm, and pay each other. However, there are also women who rely on their husbands to love themselves and what they want to do in marriage. You should know that a person's heart grows from flesh. Even men need to be concerned about the cold and warmth. A woman's long-term selfishness in marriage can make a man feel cold after giving more, and the man will slowly leave.
Selfishness has already made people angry, with anger, it will definitely make men hysterical. Many women believe that making their husbands afraid of themselves is a male strategy, but in reality, only by respecting men can they lock them up. Those women who often export dirty things to their husbands are not because their husbands are afraid of you, but because they do not want to meet you and choose to endure for the sake of the integrity of their families. If a man is forced, he will do more selfish and irritable things. Marriage is sometimes fragile and cannot withstand too much harm and torture.
A bitter and unfilial wife
Life revolves around interpersonal relationships, especially when men socialize with friends in different fields for the success of their careers, and develop necessary interactions to maintain relationships with friends. At this point, women can call men when their husbands return late, but do not curse them during the call. This behavior by women not only fails to improve men's habit of returning late, but also increases their resistance and boredom towards the family, increasing the frequency of returning late. At the same time, this recklessness of women can also leave a sharp and harsh impression on their husbands and friends. Subsequently, the husband will be distanced and forgotten by his friends.
Sadness towards a friend may be forgiven by the husband, but disrespect towards the wife will definitely touch the male underline. Smart women will never let their husbands conceal their filial parents, only foolish women will force their husbands to secretly filial their parents. Women must remember the fact that wives can be exchanged, but parents cannot. In most cases, men show impotence when faced with their wives' rudeness towards their parents, but in reality, men deeply regret it. Because for men, parents and wives are very important people in their lives, and they don't want to lose anyone. If men are forced into the part that mothers and wives must choose, wives mostly stand by.