Post Date November, 17 2024
Long term asexual couples lack the physical spirituality due to a lack of sexual stimulation. They began to lose sensitivity to the physical demands of each other. This is like a pair of doubles players who, after not practicing together for a long time, naturally become unfamiliar and lack coordination. How could it be possible to suddenly enter a peak state during the holiday? So, how should couples who have no sexual activity for a long time warm up?
The body becomes sluggish due to lack of stimulation
Does the body need stimulation? Of course. Scientists have conducted experiments and found that animals that have been in dangerous environments for a long time have much stronger sensitivity and responsiveness compared to animals that are always in a comfortable environment.
If you haven't had sexual stimulation and lubrication for a long time, don't think your body is just like a raging fire, burning at the slightest moment. Without sexual stimulation for a long time, the body becomes sluggish, and over time, habits become natural. We will see this sadness in women who have been lacking in sexual activity for a long time - they are dry, lacking in charm, and dull.
There are reports that during each holiday, there are particularly many married couples, but after the holiday, there are more divorced couples. It's not surprising to think about it. I am usually too busy, and many couples live a "fake life", covering up many conflicts and internal barriers through busyness. Once you put down your work and socialized Facebook, you have to face it every day during the holidays, which naturally leads to arguments every day.
If long-term asexuality: long-term asexuality has caused the concealment of internal cracks in couples. The more asexual it is, the less it is to see this inner diaphragm. When the diaphragm is found to have expanded during the holiday, it often cannot be compensated for through sex.
He may have gotten used to masturbating
When you didn't have sex, did he really become Liu Xiahui? Don't believe it, it's possible he's using masturbation to pass his asexual time. Listen to the conclusion in Heidi's report: "Many men in marriage find masturbation more enjoyable than sex. Because masturbation can experience orgasm more effectively, there is no need to consider the other person - although masturbation can sometimes make people feel lonely
He may be used to masturbating because he will calculate the cost of having sex with you: it depends on your tired face, patiently waiting for you to reach orgasm, pleasing you, caring whether you are tired today, and so on.
Respecting each other as a guest is harmful
What is sex? Psychologists believe that it is often an impulse for one person to explore the hidden realm of another, but this impulse disappears between couples who respect each other. Due to being too polite, the couple no longer have the fun of flirting with each other. Over time, their rationality in life increases, but their sexual passion gradually disappears.
Long term asexuality is likely to result in this situation of mutual respect. Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe referred to this as a 'masked couple'. Two people are elegant and restrained, polite and respectful towards each other, but the establishment of this marital atmosphere is often unrelated to sex.
Long term asexuality can seriously affect the relationship between couples, and such couples should quickly become "intimate" with each other. Reading a love novel, intimate massage, confiding in each other's emotions, and even arguing can all be tried as ways.
