Sexual Health
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How to treat your ex? Can we be friends with our ex? How we treat our ex will affect our next relationship, so we need to handle it carefully.
Stop pestering and fantasizing about being friends. Since we have already broken up, no matter what the reason is, both of us have reasons to not continue. So, if we try to get back together again, it's just a repeat of the same mistake. If we had this heart, we wouldn't have been able to separate in the first place.
Don't mention the past, let's divide it. Accept the reality, face it, and the cleaner the division, the faster you will come out. Don't disturb each other's lives, and you are more likely to win a better relationship.
How to treat predecessors
There was a survey online about how men view their ex girlfriends. According to the survey, 42% of men and ex girlfriends maintain contact information such as phone and internet. In addition, those who use gatherings or bed to communicate, nearly half of the men are completely disconnected from their ex girlfriends. That is to say, if a man has an ex girlfriend, then one of the two men can still be in contact with her.
54% of men say they will conceal their past sexual history. Friends who have watched 'Mobile Phone' should remember that when Yan Shouyi contacted other women, he would involuntarily lie to his wife saying it was a call from a leader. It can be seen that in the subconscious, men always try their best not to let their wives know that they have dealings with other members of the opposite sex. Especially when the opposite sex is an ex girlfriend who has had a difficult relationship before, the man is even more cunning like a fox.
Why do men try so hard to cover up and how do they view their predecessors?
The ex is the biggest enemy for the current one. Some girls are afraid that their boyfriend may not have a lasting relationship with the ex, forcing them to delete everything they see, or constantly asking their boyfriend who is better than their ex? Who is more beautiful and so on.
Most men usually hold the mentality of having more to do than less to do, and conceal their sexual history from their current employer. Some boys, unable to forget their ex, want to find a new girlfriend to help them forget the pain of the past. At this point, if the ex suddenly appears, it will easily make the boy return to his ex's embrace.
Indeed, most men who meet their old lovers tend to be self indulgent, thinking that those who have had feelings with them will always have a love in their hearts, and fantasizing that women who have loved them will always love them. Women only beautify the men in front of them, while most men unconsciously beautify their past relationships. So most men agree more than women that breaking up is still a friend. Whether it's being dumped or being dumped, most men are mostly willing to keep in touch with their ex girlfriend.
Due to the different attitudes of men and women towards their old lovers, men can only bury their beautiful past in their hearts.
What to do if my boyfriend conceals his past sexual history?
1. Trust him
My boyfriend hides his past, sometimes because it's a wound and he doesn't want to touch it. As a girlfriend, I should believe him.
2. Open one eye, close one eye
Learn to open one eye, close one eye, give yourself more space and time for him, and care more for him, so that he can forget that ex as soon as possible!
3. Thinking from a different perspective
Men conceal their past marriage history, as well as some of their bad habits, and so on. From the perspective of men, they conceal that they do not want to harm women and hope that their current relationship can develop smoothly, which is understandable.
Cherish the person in front of you.