How to treat the sexual curiosity that arises in adolescents after their sexual and physiological maturity

Understanding teenagers' curiosity and desire for sex is a threat to population explosion. Due to their urgent demand for learning and the colorful entertainment activities of modern life, people generally postpone the age of marriage, and the time from sexual maturity to marriage is extended. How to deal with the sexual curiosity that arises after sexual maturity from childhood to 10 years?

This is the most realistic problem that society, parents, and children must face. With the arrival of sexual physiological maturity, teenagers' sexual consciousness begins to awaken and sprout. The main manifestations of surprise, tension, and panic can be divided into several aspects: 1. A strong interest in the occurrence of adults and society's isolation has caused their resistance psychology, and there are no words in textbooks. Of course, there are many low-level interests, even handwritten copies, etc

2. Like to be close to the opposite sex, Goethe said: Which boy doesn't like it, which girl doesn't cherish spring. Under the influence of sex hormones, it is reasonable for teenagers to develop this longing and opposite sex mentality, which is a manifestation of their sexual psychological development. Unfortunately, their sexual psychology is much more mature than their sexual physiology, and there are significant differences between the two. This makes it difficult for them to properly handle the psychological changes at this stage. Some people say they are most prone to early love, but in reality, their psychological state at this time is not love, but only limited to general longing and love, and has nothing to do with love.

For example, the phenomenon of young girls chasing stars reflects this mood. A certain star is very handsome and quickly becomes the prince charming in the hearts of countless girls, with almost no investment in emotions. They only pursue some form and external expression. If there is any emotional engagement, they will be afraid of others peeping into their spiritual world, so they will never shout like in a concert. I love you. At this point, there is an impulse to come into contact with the opposite sex, and there is a very unstable characteristic. Suddenly, the blood boils, and I want to throw myself into the other person's arms. Suddenly, I lose my temper and swear that I will never see him again.

Therefore, at this point, it is easy to develop excessive impulses, rational impulses, inability to control one's emotions and behavior, and doing foolish things is inevitable. They are not good at controlling emotions, cannot constrain themselves with ethics and morality, impulsively wear colored glasses, cannot calmly analyze people and things, and often make mistakes. Therefore, in situations of young age, insufficient social experience, and immature psychology, one should never discuss emotional matters. At this point, one must not enter the two worlds of Qing Qing and me, and can only maintain extensive communication and normal friendship with the opposite sex.

3. Having sexual desire and impulse, dominated by a rapid increase in sexual hormone levels after sexual maturity. However, a person's thinking is developed, with thoughts, their instinctive impulses can be rationally controlled by the brain, and will not flood like a flood. As long as the physiological development of teenagers is normal, at this age, they will develop sexual desire, which is an interest in sexuality, including liking to read romantic novels and dreaming about sexual content.