How to Tell Children about Sexual Issues and Guide Children to Understand Sex Correctly

Instilling children with correct sexual knowledge from an early age can reduce their misunderstandings about sex. When receiving sexual questions from a child, parents should address them from a positive perspective and not intentionally avoid them.

Avoiding sexual problems in children

Scientific research has shown that children can clarify the classification characteristics of males and females at an early age under the guidance of their guardians. However, a certain degree of avoidance and distance towards the opposite sex is unconscious, so when children have sexual issues with you, they often make up their minds. Some children may pick up their condoms at home and think they are balloons. At this time, you should not try to stop them, thinking that this should not be a child's question, or ignoring them. This will only exacerbate the child's confusion and may turn curiosity into a psychological shadow, setting obstacles for future growth.

Regularly read books that promote sexual knowledge

Parents need to engage in the promotion of sexual science knowledge, which can not only improve their understanding of sex, but also answer children's questions from an appropriate perspective. Sex science covers a wide range of disciplines (physiology and pathology, medicine, sociology, psychology, ethics, etc.). No one can become an expert in this field, but it is necessary to learn as much as possible in this field.

How to Guide Children to Understand Sexual Education

Children who are straightforward and truthful sometimes attack me with their insights. That's when they are indeed safe. This brave conflict taught me what children can see and feel, and I also had the opportunity to guide them out of dangerous misunderstandings through discussion and explanation.

Once, I was besieged by a group of boys. At that time, we were discussing a 13-year-old girl giving birth. I say adolescent girls should pay attention to self-protection. But I haven't finished speaking yet. A man objected that adolescent girls like to be raped. As soon as the conversation ended, several more boys expressed their support. They said they have seen such a statement in books, and some CD movies also say so.

They. I know there must be a misunderstanding, let them provide detailed instructions. They mentioned girls' Sexual fantasy. I immediately realized that they confused Sexual fantasy with sexual reality. I told them that both girls and boys have some Sexual fantasy. However, just as boys' sexual dreams cannot represent boys' sexual reality, girls' Sexual fantasy do not equal their real wishes. No girl is willing to be violated. Rape tramples on women's dignity and is deeply hated by girls.