Post Date December, 02 2023
Entering the palace of marriage, everyone expects it to be beautiful, long-lasting, and happy. Whether a marriage is healthy and whether we can provide qualified answers depends on how each other manages the marriage. Below, the author provides some reference and hopes to give some inspiration to each spouse to successfully obtain a marriage health certificate.
Firstly, we need to learn how to communicate and communicate.
Communication and communication are very important in life. Don't love each other the way you think you do. Perhaps others simply can't accept it. By communicating more about emotions, you can understand what the other person is thinking and better maintain a relationship. Moreover, if there is a misunderstanding, timely communication and exchange can also easily resolve the misunderstanding and prevent unnecessary disagreements from arising from it.
Secondly, do not easily talk about divorce.
No matter how couples argue, don't easily say divorce. Especially for girls, if they argue twice at a time, they may be saved. However, if they do it multiple times, they will no longer take it seriously. Perhaps one day, they will get tired and agree to your divorce. Even if you don't want to separate in your heart and say it out loud, it cannot be saved. After all, what you say out is like pouring water.
Thirdly, learn to discover strengths and tolerate weaknesses.
When two people are together, they must learn to discover their strengths and tolerate their weaknesses. After all, there is no perfect person in the world. Learn to be tolerant and accept, understand that love is not a fantasy, and calmly face the imperfections in reality. Only then can the two of them go on for a longer time.
Fourthly, learn to self affirm.
For our souls, emotions are a huge mirror. We can always discover our 'traits' through our intimate partners. If we are unable to accept certain things of ourselves, then we cannot expect our intimate partners to accept them because it doesn't make sense emotionally. Self affirmation can bring many benefits, one of which is to reduce emotional barriers, which means it will bring more virtuous cycles to romantic relationships.
Fifth, take appropriate care of the other party's preferences.
There are differences in what men and women like, but it is important to respect each other's preferences and accompany them appropriately to do things they like but do not like to do. This will make the other person very grateful to you and will also make the same move to make you happy. The two of you are together for the sake of happiness, why not do it?
Sixth, respect each other's parents.
As we grow older and as we grow older, we not only need to show filial piety to our own parents, but also to the other party's parents, setting a good example for our children. Especially for wives, it is important to learn to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well.
Seventh, create romance.
Lovers in passionate relationships like to create romance, while old husbands and wives also need to create romance. This is a great way to enhance relationships. Surprise is a fermenting agent in mundane life, which can heat up the relationship.
Eighth, give gifts to each other.
Don't think that two people have been together for a long time, putting money and everything together. You can buy whatever you want. In fact, in his heart, he still hopes that his girlfriend (boyfriend) will occasionally give him some small gifts, even if it's a dollar. The key is to look at his heart, especially during holidays that he (she) values very much.
Ninth, for oneself, for those who please oneself.
The love of beauty is human nature, regardless of gender. It is important to prevent the stereotyped and repetitive household chores, as well as the mundane daily interactions, from destroying the emotions and aspirations of the two before marriage. Attention should be paid to embellishments, especially after women become married, they must not regard dedication and sacrifice to their family as their only meaning and obligation in life, neglecting the pursuit of a richer life.
