Post Date December, 02 2023
There is a song called Happy Breakup. I wish you a happy break. I think everyone has heard or sung it before. But if you don't really encounter such things as breaking up, you won't really understand the meaning of the lyrics. Love is sweet and bitter. The sweet thing is to talk about everything together and be warm with each other. Sadly, if there is conflict between the two parties, or they feel inappropriate, they will also break up and be lovelorn. So, when breaking up, how can we say that breaking up is not sad?
1、 Breaking up doesn't mean the failure of love
Breaking up means that many people have failed in love, which is a negation of their own choice, so they begin to be unhappy. But whatever the reason, you need to accept the reality. At the same time, how to say goodbye to each other can not hurt each other. Of course, there must be a period of sadness after breaking up, so how to get out of the sadness of breaking up and live a better life in a more positive and optimistic way is important. You should know that breaking up is an experience in life. No matter what kind of mood you have, it is only an experience to recall in the future. Therefore, don't deny yourself and love because of breaking up.
2、 Break up at the right time
You should realize that it is inevitable to be sad when you are lovelorn. How do you say you want to break up? First of all, it must be put forward at the appropriate time. For example, if the other party loves you very much, but they are going to take the college entrance examination soon, you should not make trouble before the exam. So, no matter what you do, you should consider for the other party. Even if you break up in the future, the other party will not hate you. At the same time, before breaking up, we should have a thorough consideration, try to give the other party some signals of preparation, so that the other party has sufficient time to make psychological adjustment and participate in the decision. If you make a unilateral decision one day and then disappear without telling, it is unfair to the other party.
3、 Be decisive after making a decision, and don't muddle about
If reality can't make you together, it's inevitable to break up. Then make a quick decision. Lest you and the other party will be more sad. Now that you have made a decision, don't backtrack and don't delay your actions. Some people like to say, "Although I am no longer your lover, I can still be your brother", which will continue the pain and reflect their indecision and immaturity. In terms of emotion, it is more effective to cut the mess quickly. Don't drag the mud and hurt yourself. At this time, someone will ask, should we break up after breaking up? In fact, it depends on your own thoughts.
4、 Explain the reason for breaking up
In college, love is often because of the right eye, or speculation, or feeling. But in the face of reality, the two sides may not be suitable to be together. So even if you choose to break up, you should also tell the other party why. Don't let the other party lose confidence in love because you broke up, and feel that it is wrong to fall in love. In consideration of the feelings and dignity of the other party, honestly and concretely explain why you want to break up. But don't use a critical attitude. Don't pick out all the faults of the other party, such as "you are just not manly", "I can't stand a girl being so subjective and speaking so fiercely". When breaking up, we should still respect and understand each other. Talk about your shortcomings as much as possible.
5、 Say hello to your good friends in advance
When communicating, we often know friends of both sides. If her friend has a good relationship with you, you can greet them in advance and let them comfort him more. After all, sometimes it is a happy thing to be accompanied when you are sad. Sometimes the power of a good friend is irreplaceable. One more friend on the way to life is more warmth. To get out of a relationship, you still need a person to accompany you. Friendship sometimes works, and many friendships are really tested in difficult times.
6、 Keep an open mind
Breaking up is not a happy thing for both parties. But no matter why, you should keep an open mind. When breaking up, try to say that you are not right and give the other party a certain step, so that the breakup will be faster and smoother and I wish him/her happiness. When you parted, remember to wish him/her happiness. If you are not suitable, there will always be someone suitable for him/her. It is not easy to meet. Wish him/her a good life. If you have the opportunity, go out for a walk. Tourism is a good way to relax and nourish your mind. You can also contact friends to have more social communication. First, you can relieve your depression, and second, you can find a more suitable partner.
In a word, when you learn to think in a different position and consider problems comprehensively, you can reduce the pain of breaking up to a certain extent. After all, it is fate to fall in love. However, it is not necessary to break up and cannot extricate yourself. It is a wise choice to learn to be brave, happy and steadfast in facing your life.
