Post Date November, 16 2024
Staying together for life and growing old together is becoming more and more like a fairy tale in this era. Things that were once considered unethical, such as infidelity, infidelity, and infidelity, have now become a topic of discussion among elderly people. But whether it's acting on the spot or having a real relationship, it can cause great harm to those who don't know. So what if that unfortunate person is you? Let's take a look at our ultimate strategy:
If a man is just physically cheating, not mentally cheating, okay! There is still salvation.
Don't
It is an old-fashioned and irrational practice to spread the scandal and keep it to the bottom of the box. The most taboo is to go talk to friends and cry with family members if you haven't figured it out. If there is a problem to solve, don't feel that his affair has nothing to do with yourself.
Do
As long as you still love him and he loves you, don't give up. Love is kindness, love is tolerance, love is responsibility, without love, you must separate. Because no expert can teach people to love. The perfect housewife Bree in "Desperate Housewives", whose husband is getting divorced and needs to pack up and separate, doesn't cry or threaten suicide, but is very cool.
She actively consulted with a marriage counselor and maintained a certain false appearance in front of the children. This is very similar to a good manager, and a strong and ironclad image will play a role in stability and unity. Her trump card for maintaining marriage is to demand that she give up her favorite in the divorce agreement, but to take away her husband's favorite. Men are animals of reality, and they will compromise with reality, let alone the unbroken love between them.
If you have reached the best time to get married. And he didn't mention it for a long time, but when you put pressure on him, he broke up.
Don't
This is truly a rare misfortune that will never happen. What should we do? Begging him to change his mind? Forget it, give up. He can be so playful about marriage. Even if he is tied to you, he may not be able to abandon you one day.
Do
If you can find him, you need to have a long conversation with him to understand his true intentions. If you can't find him, find the classic Japanese drama "Long Vacation" to recharge your batteries. No one would be more humiliating than Miss Nan. As the wedding was about to begin, the groom evaporated, and she had already spent most of her savings on the wedding. But after all, the sky did not collapse, and world war did not break out. Life still needs to continue. If life is not satisfactory, we will slow down and adjust our mindset. Just consider the painful period as a long vacation arranged by fate. During this period, we heal, recover, and let our lives wait for the next exciting moment.
If your next one is not as good as him at all, or if you are still alone and his young and beautiful one is better than you.
Don't
There are really many such heartwarming things. And you often have narrow friendships, either because of your child's problems and having to meet every week, or because she is simply your colleague or even friend. Gathering brothers to flatten a third party is the most hated behavior in "Jiaodian". Women should not embarrass women! Even if it's a very bad woman.
Do
What you need to do is calm down, his life has nothing to do with you anymore. If you can't calm down, then pray for someone to take care of you, like the single mother in 'Desperate Housewives'. Don't feel sad about such things. History often shows a spiral upward trend. You may be about to have a good luck when he turns around and asks you to come back to him because that young woman abandoned him. At this point, remember, as the saying goes: 'A good horse never turns back.'.
If he says he doesn't love you for any reason and wants to break up with you, what should he do?
Don't
Everything is under his control, what does he say? Absolutely not. It's not allowed to end like this, love doesn't need a reason, and breaking up must have a reason.
Do
Calm down is the most important thing. On the last date with him, ask him to explain the reason. Your reason is: you must make people die clearly, so as not to fall in the same place on the road in the future. Look at the reasons he gave, and then draw conclusions about your story. If it is a marriage and a long-term cohabitation relationship ends, it is necessary to make some financial concessions appropriately.
It's not that without him, your material life will be much worse, but rather finding a balance point so that friends won't complain about having a resentful wife. A recently divorced girlfriend said so. For the sake of a better world, it's best for men to be more generous.
If he is somewhat ambiguous with you and seems to have a desire to socialize, but he has treated you to many meals, arranged to watch several movies, and even wanted to drink to you several times. What should you do?
