If sex only involves physical pleasure, it is no different from animals. Making love requires not only physical pleasure, but also spiritual pleasure. Especially for female friends, because men have strong sexual goals, their biggest goal is to help women achieve orgasm. But women are not necessarily the same.
If you want to seek spiritual things, what should you do?
1. Tease therapy
Suggest two people sitting face to face, or one person lying down and the other sitting with their eyes open, meditating on the process of sex together, and focusing on exchanging ideas about sex.
At the beginning, both people close their eyes and concentrate on sending each other some erotic messages, speaking in as low a voice as possible. 32 year old Mary has been married for 8 years and has firsthand experience of mental foreplay. We use meditation on sex as a game. For example, we would say, 'Can you guess? Where do I want to touch you now?' And so on, we played with questions and answers bit by bit, gradually being awakened and feeling closer to each other.
2. Passionate caress
Believing in perfect sex can make both parties feel at the peak of their energy, as it indicates that you have fully integrated into one whole. A few small caresses and kisses after sex can enhance this feeling, even if it's just a little bit. Physiologically speaking, men will fall asleep after orgasm. But before taking a nap, they are willing to listen to how great they have done before.
3. Spiritual Kiss
It is a slow and deliberate technique that allows both parties to establish closer connections and then arouse enthusiasm. Gaze deeply into the other person's eyes, then pay attention to the upper and lower lips separately. For example, when he kisses your upper lip, you can kiss his lower lip. Then, stick your two lips together and hold on until you can sense each other's pulsation through your lips.
4. Touching the heartbeat
Pure viewpoint - When you put your hands on each other's hearts, you can feel more from the heart during the process of sex. At the moment of orgasm during sexual intercourse, the hand placed on the heart is like a form of sexual therapy.