Sexual Health
How to provide protective education for children and what to do if they are caught having sex
When children are young, they eat, live, and play with their parents, which can easily lead to awkward situations. For example, when parents are taking a shower and the child sees them, why do your genitals look different? Or when two passionate slaps were made, the child suddenly hit the father angrily, saying that the father had bullied the mother and pressed on her... It's interesting to encounter this situation, but it's also the best time for the child to have sexual enlightenment, so parents should seize this moment and have a good chat with the child. The case to be discussed today is that the child was very embarrassed when they saw their father watching a movie. What should I do?
Seize the opportunity to communicate easily with children
For a father, occasionally opening indecent photos and videos on a website is common, but it happens that the daughter of the door sees them inappropriately. In this situation, please learn from this father's wit. My father accidentally opened an adult video, and my 12-year-old daughter wanted to come in and play with him. She happened to see my father's eyes fixed on the computer, and curiously, she also turned her gaze to the video. When the father found his daughter behind him, he took a breath. He turned off the computer and gently took his daughter's hand, saying, 'When did you come in and knock on the door? Dad can't hear you. When did you come in?'? Dad! You're watching a movie and you're taking it very seriously. I wanted to scare you, but I didn't expect you to find out Dad is watching a video that you can only understand when you grow up, but children can't watch it! "Then Dad easily chatted about other topics and turned to another topic, arousing the child's curiosity.
Tell the child how he got here
The child is full of curiosity about how they came from. The father takes his daughter's hand and tells the child seriously that the mother has an egg baby, and the father has many sperm babies. The father's sperm babies compete and run, and the winning sperm baby will enter the mother's belly and combine with the mother's egg baby to give birth to the baby, which is you. Through my father's explanation, my daughter has gained a deeper understanding of this mysterious topic.
Provide protective education for children
The father then began protective education for his daughter, telling her that her private parts should not be shown or touched, and that she should not walk with strangers or go out alone, as it is very dangerous to encounter bad people. If someone wants to see or touch a private area, they should loudly refuse and then quickly flee or loudly seek help. At school, it is important to protect one's personal belongings, pay attention to hygiene, change clean underwear every day, take a shower, and avoid odors.