Step1
You should not: be obedient when you are on call
You should: have your own circle of friends
As your best friend, your circles do have a lot of overlap, but it is necessary to let her know that your universe is definitely not just her sun. Don't appear the next second after receiving the phone call. Don't let her cry and you dare not laugh. Occasionally introduce your friends, especially beautiful friends, to her to let her know that there is still something she doesn't know about your world. If she is curious about you again, you can snicker.
Step2
You should not: the orientation is vague and the identity is unknown
You should: show your attitude when you are a pure man
It doesn't rule out that some women play silly on purpose, and some girls with "thick lines" are really confused - if you don't confess, they will always treat you as a friend. In addition, you also need to quietly review whether your words and behaviors have caused her to misunderstand you as a "straight man"? For example, you apply lipstick or hand cream more frequently, or you concentrate on other women (in fact, you are single-minded to her). If you are a pure man, show your attitude! Let her know that you are not a bystander outside her emotional arena, but one of the contestants.
Step3
You should not: only appear when necessary
You should: grasp every "critical moment"
In the dog-blood drama, there must be a male partner when the heroine is crying. Think about those moments when you were with her. The status of a friend that you can call and leave immediately allows you to offer comfort when she needs it. Once the needs are met, you take the initiative to leave? Don't be silly. Think about the plot in the movie with your head. I don't want you to take advantage of the danger of others. But when the heroine is empty, lonely, helpless, and vulnerable, it is definitely the "critical moment" for the male partner to take the lead.
Step4
You shouldn't: imitate him she likes
You should: swear to do better than him
At this stage, she still treats you as a spare tire for love? It's not that you are bad, but that her car has been fitted with tires and is running happily. In her heart, that person is more important than you. What should I do? It's not a good idea to imitate his signature movements secretly. As a friend, you should have excellent conditions to understand the advantages and disadvantages of the "enemy", and be familiar with her "taste". If you do better than him, you will have more chances to win.