Sexual Health
How to prevent precocious puberty for parents of 11 year old teenage fathers in New Zealand
On the 15th, it was reported that an 11 year old boy had sexual intercourse with his classmate's 36 year old mother, who gave birth to a child.
The age of the father in the incident shocked New Zealand and sparked reflection from various sectors of society on whether the law on child sexual assault needs improvement.
Having sex with classmates' mothers
New Zealand's Weekend La Vanguardia reported that the protagonist of the event was from a primary school in South Auckland. In order to protect the privacy of minors' fathers and children, the report did not disclose the names of the parties involved.
In April 2002, the 11 year old party was encouraged by their classmates and took a day off together. They came to their classmates' homes to play and met their mother. At home, the mother gave him a bottle of beer and soon they had sexual intercourse.
After the first meeting, the sexual relationship between the boy and his classmate's mother lasted for several months. Not long after the boy turned 12, the woman gave birth to him.
The principal of this school recalled that one day, at the end of approximately two-thirds of the 2012 academic year, the boy came to his office and said he had something to explain.
You will be unhappy because of me. The principal's original words for assisting the boy said that he has had sexual intercourse with the mother of his classmates and needs to end it.
The psychological fear of teenagers will leave a shadow
The principal said he was shocked by what he heard and immediately reported it to the authorities. According to a person familiar with the assistance of the New Zealand La Vanguardia on the 15th, the Department of Youth and Family Affairs officially took over the custody of the newborn two months ago, and the boy as the father is also in the custody of a third party.
Staff from the Youth and Family Affairs Department confirmed that the police investigated the incident, but the woman denied having sexual intercourse with the boy.
Ken Krilwater, the director of male survivors of sexual abuse at a private organization, believes that the possible sexual assault part of the incident is not known to the outside world. When the boy explained the incident to the principal, he emphasized that you would be unhappy because of me, implying that the boy was not that woman, but believed that the mistake was his own.
He said that this psychological shadow may make boys face a series of problems such as social relationships in the future, making alcohol and drugs more dangerous.
The incident sparked legal controversy
Surprisingly, New Zealand society is paying more attention to the legal debates exposed by the incident.