How to make women more proactive
1. Gently scratch your nails
Gently penetrating the skin with nails can effectively stimulate male sexual responses. During sexual activity, you can wrap your arms around the man and gently scratch your back, buttocks, or thighs with your nails. You can scratch up and down, but don't use too much force to avoid scratching your skin. This move can make a man brittle to the bone marrow, and then sexual passion will naturally appear.
2. After taking a bath, the nude looks more sexy
Sexy lingerie can indeed surprise men, but sex expert Lenny Spitzer, author of "Hot Games," said that another sexy visual surprise for men is not wearing makeup after showering. When taking a shower, you can slightly open the bathroom door to show your partner the scene of your shower, which helps stimulate their sexual arousal.
3. Language suggestion helps to flirt
Steve Saint Agatti, a sexual relations expert at Steve Jobs, said that incorporating "spousal cues" into daily conversations between couples can help attract men's attention and arouse their desires. For example, an excuse to ask him to help massage your stiff neck; Or make an excuse that the word filling game is too difficult, ask him to complete it with you, and so on. These are all clever foreplay tricks.
4. Language teasing without action
Saint Agati said that when he lies on the sofa, you can stare into his eyes, talk to him, understand what he wants to do to you or tell him what you want to do to him. At this time, it's best not to be too hasty. Instead, listen to music, have a glass of wine, and try to control yourself from touching each other to see who can resist the temptation more. The foreplay of 'using your mouth but not your hands' can greatly improve sexual quality.
5. Assuming the scene adds romance
Lenny, a sexologist, suggests dressing up as a job interview secretary for the next date with your partner. This seemingly humorous performance can give a man a fresh and romantic feeling, which helps to enhance his sexual response. Another way is to come back from the bathroom and intentionally fight with him, but pretend not to know each other and meet romantically.
6. New feeling of "shirt handcuffs"
Next time you have sex, it's best to step onto him and slowly take off his shirt. When you reach your wrist, stop pulling and instantly turn the shirt into a 'handcuff'. The stronger your confidence, the more excited you become when you complete the action. You completely control the initiative, he is at a loss, but full of curiosity.