Showing affection requires capital and talent. It's not about pretending or being hypocritical, but about people who show their true feelings. Showing affection is truly good and being blessed. Many people, after having love, always want to show off, but sometimes they feel that showing affection is very unnatural and makes their friends very tired. On social networks, the most annoying thing besides the selfie party is probably the Xiu En Ai party. How can we naturally show our love?
Xiu En loves something and hates it the most
In fact, the only difference between these two types of people is that after a non nutritive confession, in the unrelated picture below, there is only one face or two faces. The selfie party can be understood as those who dislike them are jealous of their beauty, while the show of love party can also be understood as those who dislike them are single dogs who cannot eat grapes and say they have sour grapes. However, these two factions always roast about the older "baby drying party", and think that it is boring and boring that their social network is brushed by round children. But in the eyes of onlookers, this kind of self feeling infinite sharing behavior is really quite annoying.
But the selfie party doesn't always pout and put on an artificial expression to sway in life, and the baby drying party is also unlikely to push a stroller out of the party all day. So, after all, the party that swept away thousands of troops and won the most negative reviews was ultimately the show of love that intertwined you and me.
Why is the Xiu En Ai Party so "rampant"
When we were single, we always treated Xiu En Ai Party with indifference. For those who show their love, they often roast: "I don't understand why XX sends the same microblog circle of friends all day long, and eats, drinks and takes selfies with her boyfriend every day. Is it boring?"
What does the real show love party think? For example, my friend A recently fell in love, and the conversation was immediately filled with every detail of that man and her. No matter how serious she is when she starts the topic, the ending must always bring up her romance with a smile. For example, one day she said, "According to dream interpretation, if a person dreams of a pile of yellow lemons, it proves that they have met true love." When we asked her curiously where the code came from, she smiled and said, "Because after I dreamed of yellow lemons, I was with him
The audience had no choice but to reciprocate her behavior of showing off her love at every moment. This is still an inclusive response from those close to you. If you are a friend who is not familiar with her, it is about giving unlimited roast about the news that occupies a large number of pages on her Weibo and WeChat pages every day. Why is that? Friend A has a round face, is not tall, has short legs, and even when shopping with friends, he always feels that he is not perfect enough. But in her boyfriend's eyes, a round face is cute, and a short stature is petite. The imperfections on her face are also ignored, and every time she comes out for a party, she is the most perfect one in his eyes. Smiles complement each other, without him in the eyes. In the eyes of others, they are mostly just passersby, but who knows that they are all irreplaceable luminous entities in each other's eyes?
Meeting the right person is the best time
Probably, people with love and those without love see a different world. Perhaps true love is often inexplicable and completely unreasonable. Before meeting the right person, you always feel like you have some kind of problem, but one day when that person appears, you suddenly realize how cute you are. A relationship like this that makes people more confident and self loving can be called a healthy relationship.
There is also a saying online: We always feel like meeting that person at the best time, but we don't know that only when we meet that person will it be the best time. Such a show of love does not attract hatred or jealousy, but only earns sincere envy from others. If you ask every friend in a passionate relationship if they are prepared to spend their whole life with the person around them, the answer they receive is: take each step and count it.
They said that there are so many uncertainties in the future, maybe everyone's career will not be so smooth, maybe everyone won't have their own house and car so quickly, maybe it's difficult for everyone to live independently without their parents' care, maybe their family and friends can't get along... Because they care more and more about the person around them, they think more and more about problems, and they worry about whether this state can last for a long time. Why do you want to show off? Why show such love? Why is there still uncertainty? Because life is uncertain, we all don't know what will happen tomorrow. What supports you is the person around you. He makes you strong, brave, and beautiful.
Encourage friends who are excited to take action quickly, and encourage friends who are hesitant to bravely hold hands
What are you worried about in the future, economic conditions, and family conflicts, all of which are not as important as that person. Everyone will inevitably encounter these difficulties, and the person around you will determine how you face them. Only the right person can give you courage.
Many people are numbly seeking survival and stability, which is like struggling to find water sources in the desert. But everyone forgot that water is not the most important thing. As in the passage in "The End of Love": "We are in the same desert, looking for the same spring water, but we cannot see each other, always alone. The reason I say this is because if we were together, the desert would no longer be a desert." Something that should have happened sooner or later. The most important thing is not to live, but to be together. Because only when we are together, the desert is no longer a desert.
The only way for the Xiu En Ai Party to avoid being disliked is to make this relationship more nutritious. The so-called 'dislike of others showing their love' is actually a dislike for those nonsense parties who blindly share the details of their own lives. If the person you like makes you more and more beautiful, no matter how unsatisfactory their appearance and family background may be, what you receive will definitely not be contempt, but a sincere blessing.
If the person you find has helped you find a better self, then the friends who truly care about you will not find you annoying. Instead, they will hope that you and your true love will last forever. They hope that you can use loving words and photos every day to blast their screens. If show love is not a nonsense party, not a face painting, I believe that people around you will sincerely wish you sweet and lasting, rather than roast. So, after being with that person, I always feel happy and perfect. So, I can't help but bask in the sun. Look, this is my man. In his eyes, I am the number one beauty.