Emotion between husband and wife is the basis of two people together, and sex life is both husband and wife's rights and obligations. The quality of sex life directly affects the feelings between husband and wife. How can we keep the sex fresh and keep the couple's emotions stable? Here are some specific methods.
Often touch lovers
After several years of marriage, touching the lovers often can consolidate their feelings more than having sex. Experts said: "In addition to sex, many couples rarely touch each other affectionately, and they may feel uncomfortable about it." Improving touch skills is to remove all obstacles to achieving good sex effects. Now let's practice judging a woman's character. Pay attention to the small details of the women near you, such as their expressions on the phone, their posture in the chair, and their actions when getting off the car
More sexual locations
If bed is the only place for you to have sex, you may miss the high sexual pleasure you get from sex in other parts of the home. Step -: Starting from the kitchen, you can consider using all the delicious food in the cabinet and refrigerator, which may lead you to a new level. Step 2: Repeat in each room. If you have experienced the taste of sex on the rocking chair in the bedroom, you can enter a deeper level of sex. Apart from the bed, what is the most desirable place for sex? bathtub? Swimming pool? The car is still in the wild.
Take immediate action when aroused
Many people get excited at home, but on the way to the bedroom, they are always distracted by many things and soon lose their energy. Experts pointed out that if you want to enjoy more and better sexual pleasure, you should act immediately when you are aroused. Step -: When you feel your libido is high, don't distract yourself from other things. Concentrate and don't let your spirits slip away. Step 2: Do everything possible to choose a place to live in and start immediately. Under the following circumstances, the man or woman must restrain sexual desire and reduce or avoid sexual intercourse.
Share sexual fantasies
Through the above links, your sexual communication skills have been improved, and now you can prepare to improve your speech skills to another level -- make special requests or share one-time fantasies. Step 1: Let your lover know what he wants in his heart, or write down what you want in your heart with a note, or try the bookmark technique: in a descriptive fantasy book, find out the scene in which you want to "repeat", then mark the part with a red pen, and then put the book beside his bed. Step 2: Inform him to read those chapters before one of the days when he has made a reservation, so that he can have enough time to fully understand them.
Guide the other party to make them eager
Among the couples with good sexual relations, the desire for sex is not sporadic at all. Even if they have no sexual stimulation in front of them, they can swallow it at any time. Step 1: praise him. Generally speaking. When both men and women receive compliments and joy, they will become more enthusiastic about sex. The more specific your expression, the more you can show that your evaluation is genuine. Step 2: Create an atmosphere of eager expectation. If you plan to have sex that night, when you dress in the morning, try to show your desire to take it off. When assembling, straighten his tie and slowly zip up his pants. Ask him to buckle up his chest for you, and let his hair hang down before his hands leave your back.
Use sex toys
One day, I suddenly felt that the unchanging way of sex was extremely boring. What should I do? If you dare to try, you can certainly achieve unexpected results. Choose sex products suitable for you to increase sexual desire and improve sex quality. Let each other enjoy the excitement of sex more happily, which will surely be unforgettable for life.
Travel with your lover
Most people like to do the craziest things in the countryside, which will make sex special again. Step 1: Sit down with your husband and plan a trip schedule that you have never tried and can most arouse enthusiasm. Maybe it is just to create fun and make you feel as close as lovers. Step 2: Select one of the itineraries, and resubmit it on the night of intimacy, or give him a surprise. The most important thing is to surprise her husband to enjoy the journey.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)