Post Date December, 03 2023
With the progress of the times and the gradual strengthening of communication tools, the ways for both parties to meet in love have become increasingly diverse, and at the same time, more and more long-distance relationships have emerged. Many people believe that distance is the biggest killer of emotions. So, for objective reasons, how can couples who have to be away for a period of time maintain their relationship? Below, I will summarize several methods for maintaining relationships in long-distance relationships.
1. Good at communication
In the consultation process, such cases are always encountered. Both men and women used to be college classmates, and when they fell in love at the same school, their relationship was quite good. However, as soon as they graduated, they went to different cities, and their relationship gradually faded as the distance increased. So he was confused: Is distance really the killer of emotions? In such cases, I would first ask the visitor, 'Have you changed anything else besides your distance?'? Has the communication style changed first? In fact, it is not the distance itself that weakens emotions, but the change in communication channels caused by distance. A change in communication channels will also lead to a corresponding change in communication effectiveness. As communication effectiveness deteriorates, emotions will also begin to gradually deteriorate. In the past, in the same city and place, we could meet every day, and when we met, both parties would talk, so we could have fun and worry together. But when two people are away, sometimes a pleasant thing happens and they want to share it with each other, but the other person is not by their side. They make a phone call, but the other person is busy with their own work and can't care about themselves, so they start to feel unhappy inside. When an unpleasant event occurs, I really want to hear the other party comfort me, but the other party is unaware and thinks that I am deliberately showing off. When such misunderstandings and grievances increase, the relationship between two people will inevitably change, meaning that their hearts will go further and further apart. If a couple is in a different place, they can still share the joys and sorrows of their lives as before. The distance between the hearts of two people is definitely not far. So for long-distance couples, remember to be good at communicating with each other, timely observing their emotions, and then providing the support they need, so that long-distance relationships can be better maintained.
2. Caring about the other person's life circle
Many long-distance couples complain that as the distance increases, the number of topics they can talk about decreases, to the point where there is no topic to talk about in the end. When two people are in the same place, we can know what has happened in each other's world, so there will be many topics to discuss. But when two people are in a different place, it's difficult for us to see what's happening in each other's lives. When you don't know what's happening in the other person's world, you don't know what to ask, and gradually there are fewer topics to talk about between the two people. When a couple is separated from each other, if both parties can care about each other's life circle, actively ask each other what happens every day, and then share their lives together, there will be topics to talk about between the two people. In this way, the hearts of the two can get closer and closer.
3. Trust the other party
When two people are in a different place, there is nothing more important than trust to maintain a relationship. Two people are divided into two places, and seeing is believing. It's only through trust. When calling the other party, the line is busy, and they get through later to inquire about what's going on. The other party says they are talking to their good friend. But he insists that he is talking to another woman, and no matter how the other person explains it, it is useless. Such a relationship must be dangerous. If both parties do not even have trust, they will feel insecure everywhere and always feel insecure. If you are a man, you must always know how to give women a sense of security, otherwise women without a sense of security will be in danger. For couples in long-distance relationships, trust is crucial.
4 Honesty
Just now I talked about the importance of trusting the other party, which corresponds to being honest with your partner. When the other party has always trusted themselves, and one day he realizes that everything is deceiving him, such a relationship is destined to end. If you go out for a weekend and say you're going out with your good sisters, but one day, the opposite sex who went out with you accidentally mentioned that they went out with you. If your boyfriend or husband knows you're deceiving him, I think he will definitely have an angry mood. So it is important for two people to be honest with each other when they are away from each other. Wherever they go and what they have done, they should directly and honestly tell each other, rather than deceiving each other. At this point, someone may refute and say, "My boyfriend is very stingy. He doesn't allow me to go out and play with any friends of the opposite sex. Sometimes I go out and play with some very good friends. In fact, there is nothing between the two people, just good friends. In order to avoid worrying the other party, I simply don't tell them." If you have this idea, have you ever thought that since he is so stingy, When he finds out that you are deceiving him, he will become even more angry, and if a person tells a lie, it often takes ten sentences to make up for it. If the other party is really stingy, we should first truthfully tell them what we are really going to do. Whether the other party trusts us or not is the other party's business, and whether we don't tell the truth is our own business. If the other party really doesn't trust us, then the end of such a relationship is also a relief for both parties. If it is because one deceives the other and the relationship ends, it is the responsibility of the dishonest party. When two people are away, be honest with each other.
Long distance love, most couples will probably experience such a relationship for a long or short time. How to maintain our relationship, in addition to the emotional foundation of both parties, some good methods are also necessary. I hope everyone can remember the methods summarized above, and I also wish long-distance couples a lasting love.
