Cohabitation is now a lifestyle in which couples fall in love at a certain stage. In the past, cohabitation meant marriage. However, there is still a difference between cohabitation and marriage, and the essence lies in the emotional state. "If we cohabit for the purpose of marriage, we can become a trial marriage, while cohabitation without marriage plans can only be an intimate relationship during the peak of love.". It has to be said that there are many problems in cohabitation without entering the marriage palace. If you want to live a good cohabitation life, you must master these elements.
The Way to Live Together 1 Don't be a babysitter to a TA. Don't think that cohabitation means that a TA is a wife/husband, let alone a babysitter. What's the difference between living with a nanny and a TA. 2. There is no need for financial sharing, cohabitation and not really getting married, and managing your own finances can also reduce conflicts. As the saying goes, "My brother always reckons.". Besides, you haven't become a family.
3. Be prepared to accept TA's shortcomings. When you don't cohabit, you will dress up very decently on every date. However, once you cohabit, you will discover the ugly side of TA, and even discover shortcomings that you haven't noticed before. At this time, we need to learn to tolerate TA, but we cannot blindly tolerate it. It is also necessary to respect TA's living habits and appropriately accommodate the other party. 4. Don't forget that playing romantic cohabitation is not equal to marriage. Although living a daily life, don't forget to play romantic occasionally. Don't let you who haven't entered the marriage palace lose the spice of life. Moreover, "romance" is one of the indispensable factors in maintaining a marriage.
5. "To have space for each other, it is important to respect personal privacy, whether in love, cohabitation, or even marriage, to give each other space.". Never nag a TA like a housekeeper and restrict him from getting along with his friends, which can cause him to become bored with you. 6. Don't get involved in a TA's family life too early. Family factors can also become the trigger for a quarrel. Don't affect your relationship because of the other person's family.