Post Date December, 03 2023
A woman's marriage is the ultimate destination, so no matter when it comes to marriage, it's important to treat it well, especially when it comes to discussing marriage. Women should have a clear understanding of what kind of psychology a man is. Alright, let's take a look together!!
Man's first emotional stop: before marriage
Before marriage, men hope to have a beautiful, knowledgeable, courteous, and gentle woman with them.
Because of its beauty, it is closely related to the eye, both pleasing to the eye and pleasing to the eye; Because knowing books and etiquette, one must receive good education, self-restraint, grace, and charm, just like the crape myrtle in the TV drama "Huan Zhu Ge Ge"
That way, a man's face is shining and his heart is balanced; And the reason why gentle women are favored by men full of masculinity is because the feminine beauty of women can create a harmony between men's overly masculine personalities
The combination of "yin and yang complement each other" and "hardness and softness complement each other".
No wonder our mentor Marx's greatest appreciation for the virtues of women is the word 'gentleness'. It can be seen that 'gentleness' is a secret weapon of women and a' killer weapon 'of men's emotions, making countless men the' captives' of women.
The Second Station of Men's Emotions: After Marriage
Married men not only rely on women but also obey them. Because having a loving wife at home makes men deeply feel the good feeling of having a home. As a result, home has become a "resting harbor" and "warm paradise" for men... In order to live up to their wives' expectations, men often become more angry, progressive, and promising in their careers.
With the passage of time, men's careers have become successful, and the 'honeymoon' between couples is no longer 'honeymoon'. The day and night interactions between each other, the novelty no longer novelty, the understanding has already been understood, thus entering the "fitting in period" of the marital relationship. Year after year has passed, and for men, there is a saying of the "seven year itch".
At this time, men, due to frequent socializing and increased temptation, are in an unusual state and performance when facing their desired woman, regardless of their purpose. Firstly, it demonstrates lofty ideals and extraordinary vulgarity
To win with outstanding professional skills; Secondly, he/she exhibits great talent or wealth, with knowledge of astronomy and geography, and knowledge of music, chess, calligraphy, and painting. He/she knows everything, as if he/she is knowledgeable about the past and the present, and can predict the future;
Thirdly, the language is witty and full of humor. Whether it is the three teachings and nine streams, or the topic of ancient "chamber art", it can be integrated and talked about in detail. It is called sublime science and advocates civilization. Even when it comes to sensitive topics that women consider, they can shed their face and talk about them like pearls and pearls, with a resounding voice. It can be said that one is in an excellent state of "deep emotions lead to poetry, and deep meanings lead to rhyme".
The third stop of men's emotions: extramarital affairs
Indeed, speaking comes from speaking, and performance comes from expressing. Whenever a man faces extramarital emotions, there are only two situations.
Firstly, as described by a female writer, "A man is just a dog. Based on different structures, he goes out to pee a few times throughout his life without making a fuss. Anyway, he still wants to go home and remains loyal
Yes, dogs are loyal This passage confirms the secular evaluation of men: "I like the new but not the old." Some people compare this man's feelings to "Shaobing (Baked cake in griddle)", which can be divided into several pieces and fall in love with several women at the same time.
Secondly, men are purely lascivious. Faced with women of different styles, temperament, and appearance, they always express envy in different ways and expressions. There is a strong sense of "eating from the bowl and looking at the pot"
The greed of 'Li'. To be honest, most men only stay in the stage of being "lascivious" and do not become "selang". They hold a "respectful" and "aloof" attitude towards the women around them, and a certain distance
Will easily offend her and possess her.
For this kind of "all talk, no action" man, why does he like to appreciate "pretty girls"? He would aptly say, "Young with a mindset." It seems that the beauty of women adds another value. For most men, there is no "use value" but also "appreciation value"
