Bursting chrysanthemums through the back door is called anal sex, which refers to the sexual activity of inserting the penis into the anus to obtain satisfaction. Similar behavior had already occurred in ancient times, but at that time it was mostly regarded as taboo and avoided discussion. For men, this behavior can more stimulate their desires, but for women, it is not very interesting.
It is obvious that anal sex has always been a part of human sexual behavior. But are there many people of the opposite sex doing this? It is difficult to investigate anal sex because people are usually unwilling to admit to such behavior. However, anal sex is an important method of HIV transmission. With the increasing threat of AIDS, people cannot avoid this problem. A survey conducted in the United States from 1999 to 2000 showed that 22% of women had anal sex in the past three months, while the data for men was 21%.
There are significant differences in attitudes towards anal sex between the sexes. Overall, many men are addicted to this behavior and do everything they can to persuade their partners to do it, which is often seen in men's pornographic films. Women feel disgusted by this, and if their husbands and boyfriends make such demands on them, they will be very upset.
Why do men like anal sex (vestibular sex)?
So, why are men so obsessed with this sexual behavior? They often explain that women who want to have anal sex have great charm for men. This symbolizes that she did not have sex with him for the sake of pregnancy, but rather for the desire for sex itself. At the same time, it also signifies the woman's wholehearted love and trust in him. In addition, there are reports that although women are less likely to experience physiological pleasure from anal intercourse, women who want to engage in anal intercourse are usually those who want to explore the joy of sexual life, so they can obtain many orgasms from sexual intercourse.
Of course, there are other reasons why men are obsessed with anal sex, such as the ability of the sphincter around the anus to contract more significantly than the vagina controlled by the smooth muscle, so the pleasure brought by inserting one side is stronger. Furthermore, it is undeniable that this form of sexual intercourse can satisfy men's desire for dominance and possessiveness towards their partners.
Anal trading can easily cause pain, but long-term foreplay and high lubrication can avoid most of the pain. Nevertheless, more than half of the women who have engaged in such behavior describe painful experiences and indicate that they do not want to experience them again.