Post Date November, 16 2024
Women have a deep-sea needle in their hearts. In fact, men's psychology is just as elusive as women's. Although men may seem careless and free from details on the surface, the following eight psychological traps have a fatal impact on them.
Don't step into the psychological minefield of men
1. Don't constantly try out men, let alone use breakups as a threat. When you often give them psychological cues, their subconscious will be ready to break up. Probing is not trusting, and using a breakup threat to mistrust is even more wrong, which can make a man doubt your love for him. When a man really agrees, you're not just a chicken flying egg.
2. Don't expand your rights unlimited just because a man loves you, don't interfere with his ideals, beliefs, and pursuits, don't think you see farther than a man, he must have some traits that you don't understand. Sometimes the essence of emotions is trading, where a man exchanges his love for your love, rather than getting even worse for you. If you mistakenly believe that a man's concession is a reverence for you, then your emotions are not far from death.
3. Don't be late often, don't think that if a man loves you, he should have infinite patience. A person's patience is limited, and when patience wears off, it should wear off love. There is a saying: Don't wait until men lose patience to remember temptation. There is also a saying: China is not lacking women the most. So don't make men wait too long.
4. Don't believe in the saying 'If you love me, you should know what I think'. This is a complete nonsense, no one will fully know what the other person is thinking. It is very foolish to conclude that a man does not love you because he did not understand your thoughts in a timely manner. I forgot where this sentence first came from, but I often see it in Korean dramas and romance novels. You're not the woman in the plot, are you?! Similarly, I am not the man in the plot. So I didn't understand your heart's superpowers.
5. Don't confide in him just because he is the closest person to you. Give him all your misfortunes, pain, grievances, and complaints, and use him as an outlet. A man is not a waste buying station. When he confirms that he cannot change you, he will have to flee. Occasionally recounting your misfortunes will bring inner venting and sympathy from men. But being sentimental and worried about things that may not necessarily happen can make men very uncomfortable. Which would you choose between a partner who often smiles and a partner who looks unlucky?
6. Don't try to change a man, don't think he will become your ideal excellent man under your guidance. It's wiser to adapt to him than to change him. If you like to eat apples, go find an apple, why force a pear to become an apple. He's also working hard, and you're also working hard to eat.
7. Don't be overly confident in your charm. Few men will permanently bear the temptation to go back and forth, and few men can come and go at will, unless this man loves you with ulterior motives. This is very dangerous, and men will not fundamentally enjoy doing it unless they are wronging themselves to please you. If you deceive him, you need to pay attention to whether his cup contains sulfuric acid.
8. Don't hold onto a man's mistake and constantly quote during every argument. No man likes such a woman. Men will make mistakes and make up for them in other ways. This behavior is called 'compensation' in psychology. The purpose is to exchange your past for forgiveness. If you are still aggressive, then men also have a mentality called 'rebellion'.
How to Identify Men's Sexual Psychology
1. Men value sex more than women
Women value love, while men value sex more. To tie your husband's heart, you need to maintain your lasting sexual charm. You can often tell your husband through sexy body language that you love him and are waiting for his arrival. Most men have sexual fantasies and always want to bring forth new ideas in the way of making love. You should discuss and practice with him. In this way, although you have been married for several years, you still maintain novelty and excitement. Remember, men always have a desire to 'try something new'.
2. Men hope that their sexual 'talents' are appreciated
Wives should praise their husbands for their "talents" in sexual aspects, such as their bravery and strength. Most men find it important to maintain a strong image. If you think he is very capable in sex, he will feel like an extraordinary man and have a desire to "show off", which may give you a new sexual experience.
3. Men vent their emotions through sexual activity
Men usually "don't shed tears lightly" and often vent their emotions such as fear, pain, and pessimism through sexual activity. When they are in pain, having sex is the only way to make them feel comforted and safe.
However, although the husband's body relaxed, his psychological tension did not ease, and the wife would definitely not receive more caress from the husband.
So when you find your husband actively approaching you when he is feeling down, you should try to make him believe that he can confide everything to you. Tell him you want to hug him, and then ask him what makes him so anxious, so that you will feel even more intimate.
4. Men are completely different before and after sex
Many women complain that their husbands completely close themselves after sex, but they don't understand that men are only doing this to regain control of their emotions. A man believes that only through sexual activity can he fully express his passion, and after the matter is over, he feels that he should 'restore the image of a man'.
5. Men don't like to be treated like children
If you always treat your husband like a child, he will treat you like a "mother". Women often only focus on the needs of others, but neglect their own needs. At first, men still enjoy being taken care of, but the closer a woman approaches the role of a mother, the harder it becomes for her husband to treat her sexually.
When your husband asks you where his keys are, you have to force yourself to answer 'I don't know' and let him find them on his own. Don't tidy up his things, don't give advice on what he should wear, treat him as a capable person, and show your full trust in him. Perhaps at the beginning, there may be some chaos in your life, but soon he will understand everything you have done and have a new understanding of you.
