Due to psychological and physiological reasons, when men and women are together, they will experience a relaxed and happy feeling, which attracts the opposite sex and forms a good social relationship. But there are still some things to pay special attention to when interacting with men and women.
The most appropriate psychological distance between men and women in communication
It is common to interact with men in social activities. So, how to grasp the balance in communication? There is a lot of knowledge here. The scale of sexual interaction must be well grasped.
1. Avoid excessive intimacy
Excessive intimacy not only makes oneself appear too frivolous, causing people's aversion, but also easily leads to unnecessary misunderstandings. Even lovers who have already established a relationship should not casually show enthusiasm and premature intimacy.
2. It is not advisable to be overly indifferent
Because indifference can harm the man's self-esteem and also make people feel proud, impolite, and aloof.
3. Don't be overly restrained
In communication with men, when it comes to speaking, laughing, shaking hands, and standing side by side, being coy can be annoying; On the contrary, being too casual is not good. After all, there are differences between men and women. Some topics can only be discussed between the same sex, and some jokes should not be played in front of the opposite sex. This is all to be noted.
4. Don't rap
It is not pleasing to intentionally show off one's knowledge and keep talking incessantly, or to forcefully argue and argue without giving up; Of course, don't be too silent. Always keep silent or just say 'oh' or 'ah', even if he is smiling at the moment, it can easily dampen the mood.
5. Don't be too serious
Being too serious makes people afraid to approach and intimidate at the sight; But it should not be too light. A sense of humor is likable, and deliberately making a fool of oneself, even thinking it's humorous; It has the opposite effect.