After the news of article derailment broke out in April 2014, Ma Yili quickly approved the attitude of "go ahead and cherish". After the event, the article also publicly apologized and seemed to no longer date his lover. However, from the sneak shooting of the puppies team for nearly a year, we can see that the article and Ma Yili still do their own things. When marriage is hurt, even if the wounds are stitched together, the scars will still be there. The same is true for lovers. Because of various reasons, the two people no longer contact. When we find that we are still inseparable from each other and resume contact, we will experience a period of indifference. If the cold transition is good, the love relationship will warm up again. If it is not handled properly, it is likely to make the distance between the two people farther and farther. How can we get through the cold period?
First of all, both sides should actively seek opportunities to coexist.
In the early stage of recovering contact, many young couples want to put on their own airs and hope that the other party will take the initiative, so as to prove their worth. Each other expected the other to take the initiative, but in the end, no one paid attention to the other. If you have the idea that you want the other party to prove your worth on your own initiative, you might as well ask your own inner answer. How likely is the other party to take the initiative to invite you? If you measure the answer, it is very unlikely. Then you need to lower your posture and take the initiative to ask each other out, unless you have made up your mind to completely separate. If you don't want to separate, then you should work hard with sincerity. At least you won't regret missing a good relationship because of your willfulness in the future.
Secondly, praise the other side's good changes.
In fact, after the two people resume contact, the two sides will have some changes more or less. What is the scientific way to do after the resumption of contact? Be sure to praise each other's good points in time. On the one hand, it shows that you care about each other very much, and you have her/him in your eyes. At the same time, affirming each other's advantages is also to respect each other and promote the development of the relationship. When both parties find themselves beautiful in the other's eyes, they will be more confident in this relationship, which will also make it easier for both parties to integrate into this relationship.
Thirdly, we can experience some special things together.
For example, a boy can invite a girl to play thrilling entertainment activities such as secret room escape and haunted house. In the role of the activity, she may be particularly attached to you, which can promote the relationship between two people. Or take a photo of a couple with her. In the process of taking a photo, the photographer will surely bring you together to kiss, so that you can find a good opportunity for intimacy. At the same time, beautiful portraits are full of beautiful memories. When we see beautiful portraits, our mood will also follow Meimeida, which is conducive to the warming of both parties' feelings.
In the cold period of recovering contact, lovers must take the initiative to manage this relationship. Only love can make our relationship warm up again.