Post Date December, 03 2023
The originally calm mood and the originally dull life began to fluctuate one day because of your appearance.
You are the rosy sunset, you are the breeze in the warm sun, you are the seashell on the coast, your every move makes me miss you all the time, and your every smile makes me miss you all the time.
All my time is beyond my control because of your presence, and my mind is controlled by you because of your arrival.
My eyes follow your figure. My originally quiet world rises and falls because of you.
The silent is no longer silent, but has a happy melody, and the lonely is no longer lonely, but a pair of embracing and carrying in and out.
It is you who awakened my sleeping heart and sowed the seeds of love in my heart;
It is you who awaken my joy with a sweet smile when I am depressed;
It is you who soothed my body and mind with your gentle words when I was lonely
But why do you want to destroy our love garden after three years and five years? Why? Why? Why?
When the boyfriend is unable to accept the sudden breakup proposed by his ex-girlfriend who was once like glue in the past, how can his ex-girlfriend get rid of the unclear questioning and unavoidable entanglement of his ex-girlfriend?
First of all, as his ex-girlfriend, he should give the other party sufficient reasons to let him understand the reason for the end of your relationship. However, be careful to explain some factors that caused the breakup between you. When explaining to the other party, don't hurt the self-esteem of the other party, so as not to make things more stalemate. Pay attention to the softness of words and the organization of narration. And analyze the differences in your personality. However, we should give the other party a thorough analysis and list the advantages and disadvantages of drawing inferences from one example. We should not refute the other party completely and completely. This will easily irritate the other party's nerves and lead to uncontrollable situations.
Secondly, the sudden proposed breakup gave a blow to the boyfriend who had been intoxicated in the river of love. In the face of the sudden situation of separation, the appearance and face of the sudden may not be the reality that the ex-boyfriend can accept for a while. So it is normal for him to ask the reason and reason. But as an ex-girlfriend, you can't avoid it. You have to face it frankly. In the face of the situation, it is best to invite a friend of an ex-boyfriend to accompany him and negotiate with him to win the understanding and support of the foreign aid and the sympathy of the foreign aid. It is he who mediates and adjudicates from it to reach a final consensus in order to achieve a harmonious situation of peaceful coexistence in which "the business is not based on benevolence and justice".
Once again: When you are in the constant annoyance of an ex-boyfriend every day, and this annoyance and confusion often hinder your work and life, you might as well choose the "can't afford to hide" hiding strategy and stratagem - carry the bag and leave, and give him a "no message" empty city plan. Perhaps the brief strategy of avoiding risks can reduce his "thirst for knowledge" mentality and pace. In the empty window period when we can't meet each other day and day, we can cut the feelings that are still disorderly. Maybe we can calm down and sort out some ideas without the presence of the parties. Maybe he can reflect on himself in such a free time, and can really choose his own direction and future soberly in a daze.
Second, seek the intervention of the parents of the ex-boyfriend and the leaders of the unit. But remember to keep quiet and pay attention to the face and self-esteem of the other party. Men care about the collective effect in public. As his former girlfriend, you must have a certain place in his mind. Because he cares about your feelings, he will "chatter and lingering". But now the so-called possession is not the original heart to heart, but their own minds. So his obsession with you is nothing more than "why don't you miss the beginning? Why do you hurt my love for you? Why are you cold and indifferent?" and so on. Let him fully understand that "a bitter fight is not a sweet one" and face the normal emotional separation of breaking up with a man's attitude. Let him understand the fate of "hanging from a tree".
Finally: Men's toughness is sometimes just a moment of anger and unconvinced. When a woman challenges a man who has always been strong with a preemptive attitude, this situation is not a situation that any man can easily accept and be willing to accept. The cold fact that you dumped him and the stimulation of his hurt feelings are like sending a weak sheep to launch a disproportional provocation and attack on the lion, so his self-esteem and his psychology cannot accept such contempt and contempt, and naturally his entanglement is also in the common sense and expected. As long as you can tirelessly enlighten and unblock his accumulation and displeasure, perhaps patient persuasion and friendly prompts can also "turn hostility into friendship". However, it is necessary to follow the trend step by step and make greater efforts to improve his self-confidence. It may be another sunny and sunny sky.
All emotional confusion is just adding some artificial trials and tests to the road to mature personality. As long as both men and women can afford it, it comes from the examination and testing of the soul and personality, and there is no gap and obstacle that cannot be overcome.
