How to enlighten children about the problem of early love? How to help children get rid of the troubles of early love

Couples born in 1995 eloped and stole when they didn't have money to eat. How should parents cope with the phenomenon of premature love in their children? For the public, the issue of "early love" among young men and girls is not uncommon. But when there are frequent incidents of "elopement" and "loss of contact", it cannot help but make people alert and reflect.

Many people feel sorry for these children who fell in love and eloped. However, to be fair, it is understandable for young and ignorant women to yearn for love and choose to elope for love without hesitation.

At around 19:00 on the 17th, a couple was caught stealing from a supermarket in Xixiaolou District, Hulu, Daqing City. The police arrived at the scene and saw that the two had stolen some snacks such as beef jerky and dried fruits.

I heard that both of them were born in 1998 and are minors. They live in Anda and do not attend school now. They also have a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

Due to family opposition, they felt out of coordination with their family, so they took the train to Hulu District. The money I brought out a few days ago has been used up, so I can't go to the supermarket to steal food.

In the end, the supermarket owner decided not to hold the two of them accountable. The police contacted two parents and they were taken away by their families that night.

Early love, what should we reflect on?

After a child's early love, we should reflect on the reasons for their early love and what are our views on it? Understand and calmly communicate with the child again, be moved, understand, and the child may calmly face the problem of early love.

Of course, the deeper problem with early love and elopement is that no one has taught a child a "love lesson" and they do not understand what true love is? What are the responsibilities behind love? In the process of a child's growth, she and he can gradually understand love and feel true love in the pursuit of a better life. However, if we can give the child love lessons in advance, the child may not take detours and may also avoid early love and elopement.

How to help children get rid of the troubles of early love as soon as possible

Teenage students have a clear understanding of the dangers of early love by rationally overcoming this immature emotion

The most direct harm of early love is its serious interference with learning. I spend all night thinking about the opposite sex I like, so I don't want to study and feel that studying is meaningless, making it difficult to concentrate in class. Because you don't listen carefully, your academic performance will get worse and worse. It is said that the gravity of career, the driving force of love, and the reaction force of discrimination and oppression are the three main driving forces of life. Therefore, if early love is handled well, it can generate relevant information on motivation. In junior high school, early love is mostly due to academic neglect and love failure. On the contrary, young students who deeply bury their love in their hearts and learn not only succeed in their careers, but also win the blue light of love. Therefore, young students should set their sights further and use reason to overcome emotions. The true essence of perseverance is to overcome oneself. If we can overcome ourselves, we will get rid of puppy love.