As the body gradually matures, both teenagers and men have sexual desire. But after all, they are young people. Although sexual physiology tends to mature, sexual psychology is not yet mature. At this time, if sexual intercourse occurs, it is not appropriate. But in fact, many boys and girls have had sexual experiences. According to a survey, teenagers have frequent interactions between men and women. What should the teacher do in the face of this situation?
The concept of chastity among young men and women
This survey focuses on high school students from a key middle school in Guangdong Province, and randomly checks 10 classes from three grades. 505 valid questionnaires were collected. Is the chastity of the respondent important? The proportion of answers to this question varies for each grade. As grades increase, the proportion of students who choose "yes" in their first, second, and third year of high school is 68.39%, 59.44%, and 53.16%, respectively. The proportion of high school seniors who choose to "see the specific situation" is as high as 41.77%.
Experts believe that we cannot simply draw conclusions. This survey shows that teenagers are facing more and more chastity choices as they grow up, and they incorporate more thinking into their choices.
Sex education is too slow
The survey results also show that with the increase of grade, the proportion of high school students' sexual knowledge coming from books, magazines, and media gradually increases, with 53.77% in grade one, 61.64% in grade two, and 66.25% in grade three. Expert analysis shows that high school students' self-awareness, independence, and self-learning ability are increasing, but it also reflects that with the intensification of learning tasks, schools have slowed down the pace of sex education.
A survey shows that 67.29% of students find it difficult to consult their parents about related issues. 24% of students boldly ask their parents questions. 84% of parents can calmly answer, but 74%. 87% of parents are still shy of explaining. Experts believe that the main reason is that they must find it from their parents. Some parents even believe that sex education is not their own business. They are accustomed to throwing the "ball" at schools and society in this way.
Adolescent curiosity about sex
Teenagers and children are in a period of sexual germination. The sexual knowledge and physical development they have just come into contact with are gradually becoming complete. Their curiosity and desire for sexual knowledge make their sexual intercourse increasingly frequent. During this period, children are prone to rebellion. Parents should provide correct sexual guidance.