Post Date December, 03 2023
Since ancient times, it has been emphasized to match the families of the same family, and such marriages have a longer lifespan and higher insurance coverage. When a man has money, finding a partner is indeed relatively easier. But many men's money is rarely controlled by women. Especially when a wealthy husband has an affair, how can a vulnerable wife defend their marriage?
Firstly, treat him sincerely
Men are born with the ability to defend themselves. On the one hand, they work hard on their own, and on the other hand, they also consider how to achieve success. So they are looking for a wife, at least hoping to be someone who is sincere to themselves. So, don't play smart in front of him. Rich men are often not foolish and know how to observe others through daily details. Judge others through daily behavior. So, if you want to keep his heart, you must be absolutely sincere to him, and this sincerity is irreplaceable by other women. He has money, and he has an affair outside. Even if you can't control him, at least you need to gain his full trust. In this way, even if he loves someone else, he will not have the idea of divorcing his wife.
Secondly, one must be able to maintain the money that can support oneself
The couple were originally birds in the same forest, but if they were to die, they would fly separately. Many couples share weal and woe. He is already in a dominant position, and in many ways you may be willing to tolerate him. But in terms of emotions, you may not be able to tolerate it at all. Unless you love money more than yourself. Since you can't even keep the other person's heart, at least learn to leave your own independent money. Even without him in the future, life will not be passive. It's not about teaching you to cheat, but about keeping the minimum dignity for yourself. In this lifetime, people will always encounter many things. After all, having money is a good thing and can help you solve many immediate difficulties. First, consider settling your own money, at least not letting your finances become chaotic. In such a situation, let's talk about how to defend marriage.
Once again, we need to distinguish the current situation, and if the enemy does not move, I will not move
If your wealthy husband has an affair, you can only plan for the worst. The worst thing in life is just getting divorced from him. When you are not afraid, you will become calm, straightforward, and not easily say the wrong thing. Even if he is a wealthy person, he always values decency in everything. If you still want to spend time with him, you need to maintain enough composure and composure, so that you know how to maintain the best state of your marriage. If you can face his affair calmly, just like facing his departure, this matter will not hurt you. Even if he is rich, you are still the wife he married openly, and there is no need to belittle oneself for being a slut. When you understand to open up and forget yourself, you are a good defender of your marriage. The so-called 'not arguing is arguing' is this truth. Pretending not to care is also the best respect for oneself. Don't see your awkwardness in the eyes of those who hurt you, it is a hope for self healing in itself.
For women, marriage is a form of rebirth. If there were no issues in marriage, we would not know our own attitude towards life. If it weren't for the other party's mistake, we wouldn't have known how fragile we are in reality. The reason why I can't let it go is because my heart is not big enough. When you learn to live to the death, you will understand that there is no need to fight with men in this life, because home has never been a battlefield. You just need to make the other person understand that even if you have a great love for them in this life, you will still keep three points. Because these three points will be used to comfort and warm oneself in times of pain. A man's world needs peace, especially in the family. Since he can't stay in his heart, why not give him a quiet sky? Isn't this a charm?
