Post Date December, 02 2023
In the process of dating, many girls will complain that their boyfriend is too passive, even a bit dull, and appears to be mentally inflexible. He rarely tries to ask his girlfriend out, is not accustomed to sweet words to make her happy, and is even more ashamed to surprise her with intimate and mysterious gifts. Such boyfriends are easily seen by girls as introverted boyfriends who don't understand amorous feelings, have no interest, and are not attractive enough. However, we should not be blind to reason. Generally speaking, introverted boys, in addition to their small shortcomings such as silence, cold expression, lack of communication, and being prone to shyness, are generally more focused on emotions. They are quick to observe and think, which can also be said to be a group that thinks too much and acts less, because they will consider whether everything can be done and the consequences, and often lack the courage to implement in the end.
It doesn't matter who is more active and who is more passive when interacting with men and women. If the person you love deeply is an introverted person, then why not? Be sincere and open to stone. The main thing is that you are willing to pay, willing to take the initiative, and take the initiative. Everything you do and do is seen in his eyes, and his mind remembers it. "In addition," falling in love "," socializing ", and so on, all emphasize face-to-face and direct conversation. Therefore, both parties cannot be absent from dating, and must pay attention to it. This is an important link in deepening each other's feelings and an indispensable process in love.". Therefore, when dating introverted boyfriends, we should pay attention to these aspects:
First, propose an appointment. Choose the right time to actively propose to your boyfriend. It is best to give him a psychological preparation process one or two days in advance. Don't be too impulsive and reckless, to avoid taking him by surprise, and then cause him to mess up with various reasons. Introverted boys not only rarely take the initiative to date their girlfriend, but if they encounter a girlfriend who takes the initiative to date them, even if they are very happy, their psychology will not be clearly displayed on their faces. It is also inevitable that they will choose reasons to escape due to their heart rate accelerating or not being prepared for it, which is also the image that more introverted men do not perform well in love.
Second, discuss the content of the appointment. Give some examples of dating content based on their hobbies and lifestyle. For example, girls themselves like to watch movies, participate in art exhibitions and music festivals, and love food. Then consider whether their boyfriends are interested in skating, mountaineering, watching ball games, or going to the gym. "You can combine these elements and make a decision with your boyfriend. Of course, girls should also learn to observe their behavior. Introverted boyfriends may prefer more to their girlfriends. At this time, it is also necessary to choose a few dating items that boys prefer, so that the dating content is not too monotonous.". More importantly, most boys don't like to go shopping with their girlfriends. Girls should try to respect their boyfriends and give them freedom.
Then, choose a familiar appointment location. Introverted men may feel uncomfortable in unfamiliar environments, and girls should propose eating, chatting, singing, watching movies, or other matters in familiar settings to keep each other in a warm and comfortable environment, which can lead to a faster warming of emotions.
Finally, precautions during appointments. First, it's best for girls not to be late or arrive early. Being late can easily make a boyfriend feel that you don't value dating. Arriving early can make an introverted person feel guilty in his heart, and he may struggle with this throughout the dating process. Secondly, due to her introverted personality, her boyfriend doesn't speak much, which may lead to an embarrassing situation in which the two of them just freeze up halfway through the conversation. Therefore, during the dating process, you should wait for the opportunity to move, grasp the scale, appropriately guide your boyfriend, and throw out common topics. Do not always recall the past, but focus on creating memories of the present, so that he has more interest and opportunities to talk freely. Pay attention to the eye contact between the two people. If necessary, add humor and jokes to liven up the atmosphere. Also, don't forget to take photos and record their good memories.
After the date is completed, chat with your boyfriend about their feelings, share dating photos, say warm words, and give him some hints. He should take the initiative to ask you out next time.
