How to correctly guide children's sexual fantasies? Children have sexual fantasies, and parents should guide them in this way

Children in adolescence are more curious about things around them, including sex. If parents can guide them correctly at this time, then there can be a good result. Today, experts will use a case to explain how to correctly guide children's sexual fantasies. Let's take a look together.

Xiaogang has been in the second grade of junior high school. During this period of time, Xiaogang is always a bit restless. He can't wake up in the morning. He often sleeps in class. When he comes home, he is often listless and absent-minded. Of course, Xiao Gang's changes cannot escape his mother's attention. So my mother explained to my father one by one about Xiao Gang's recent abnormal behavior.

One evening after dinner, my mother tidied up and my father chatted with my son. Their conversation was particularly harmonious, and as they talked, Dad brought the topic to the main point.

So Xiaogang mentioned the reason for his recent poor mental state. Recently, a beautiful girl has been transferred to Xiaogang's class. I don't know why. Since seeing that girl, Xiaogang sometimes unconsciously imagines our good times together, and often dreams about her. The most terrifying thing is that every time he wakes up, he discovers that he has ejaculated, so he is very scared and panicked, I know you shouldn't fall in love early, but I didn't mean it either. But every day when I see that girl at school, I feel embarrassed, so I've been feeling a bit upset lately

Knowing the truth, the father smiled and said, "Son, it's nothing. Don't have any psychological burden on this matter, it's a normal physiological phenomenon. If you treat that girl with the right calmness, this phenomenon won't happen again. Dad has had such experiences before at your age

Really? I thought it was my psychological darkness! "My son seemed relieved," Dad, can you tell me something

Of course, Dad couldn't help it. "So the two of them began to explore and learn about adolescence and sexual knowledge.

After children enter puberty, as their sexual awareness develops, it is natural for them to have sexual impulses, which not only manifests in their physiology, but also in their psychological work. Adolescent children may experience sexual fantasies, dreams, and masturbation under the influence of physical instincts, sex hormones, and other factors that affect sexual desire. And in the above story, Xiao Gang, due to seeing a beautiful girl and receiving sensory stimulation, developed a subconscious sexual impulse, resulting in sexual fantasies and dreams. This is a very normal thing, and Xiaogang's parents did a good job, even if they solved the child's confusion, rather than blindly blaming regardless of the reason.