Post Date December, 03 2023
How to break up with a boyfriend who has sex
It is a common thing for two people to have sex after they have sex. But when they have sex, they think it is not very appropriate for them to get along with each other. For some reasons, they want to break up. Then the sexual relationship between two people is a relatively embarrassing experience. How can we say that breaking up with the boyfriend who has sex is the best thing. If you want to say how to break up, but don't want to say too much. If you want to be friends after the break up, you must pay attention to the good time and master certain language skills.
1、 If you choose the right time to break up, you will get twice the result with half the effort
For the matter of breaking up, whether the proposer or the proposer, the vast majority of people still have some psychological obstacles. After all, two people have been together, so there must be a corresponding emotional foundation between them. So even if they are already in a state of separation, there will be some reluctance in their hearts. Especially when it comes to breaking up with a boyfriend who has had sexual relations, they have experienced the most intimate things together, but they still have to choose to break up in the end. Once they do not properly deal with the breaking up, it may be a lifelong estrangement for both of them.
So be careful when breaking up, especially when breaking up with your boyfriend who has had sex with you. First of all, it is very necessary to choose a good time to break up. For example, when two people are shopping and watching a movie, they are in a very good mood, but you suddenly propose to break up, and your boyfriend must not understand. No one will understand such a strange blow. Such a breakup will certainly make the other party feel resentful, especially if they have had intimate relationship, then the sudden breakup will be unacceptable for a while.
So for the break up time, we should first create. In life, don't let two people become respectful to each other. There is no contradiction at all. On the contrary, at a certain time, you can even deliberately create some contradictions to give each other a psychological hint of discord. In this way, the other party will be more prepared for the real breakup. After all, the boyfriend who has had intimate relationship must be special, so if the two people were well vaccinated before, they would not be too surprised at the moment when they finally broke up, and it would also be good for the relationship between the two people after breaking up.
Then is the time to break up. How can I tell my boyfriend to break up? Don't break up when the other party or you are in difficulties, because it will make both people feel that this decision is affected by the current environment; Also, don't break up when you are too happy. It is hard for many people to accept the news when it is too exciting. It is better to tell the breakup when the mood is relatively stable and the current situation can be analyzed calmly, so that the other party can better accept this fact rationally.
2、 The correct choice of the location and language of the breakup can better help the two people to break up peacefully
In addition to timing, the choice of location and language should also be in place. First of all, you can choose a more public place to break up, so that no matter what, everyone will not be too embarrassed, and then you can choose a place that has a deep memory for both of them, but is not necessarily very pleasant. It is more convenient for the two people to talk about it.
It is also easier for people to talk about sentimental topics where people can generate old feelings without too much resistance. Because since there has been a close relationship between the two people, you must be a very important and very close person to him. Now that we propose to break up, whatever the reason is, the first thing we need to do is to stabilize their emotions. Only by stabilizing their emotions can they talk to each other.
In addition to the proper choice of location, we should also pay attention to the proper wording in the speech. Because the relationship between the two people is very close, he will subconsciously think that he is perfect and excellent in your eyes, even if he has reached the point of breaking up. So we just need to objectively explain the current problems of the two people, but pay attention to the wording should not be fierce, and try not to have any bad comments on him. After all, we are going to break up, and there is no need to pay too much attention at the end.
As long as you pay attention to your words and don't say anything too aggressive, you will be able to break up with your boyfriend peacefully even if he has a close relationship with you. No matter how close they are, no one can guarantee that they will be together for a lifetime without conflicts. In the face of an inappropriate person, no matter what has happened between the two people, carefully consider it, and the person who should break up should be ruthless. After all, it is not necessary to torture both people together, but mastering the correct method when breaking up can better ensure that they will not break up and even fail to make friends.
