Post Date December, 02 2023
There are always many couples who break up due to a momentary impulse or some minor conflict, but over time, they will suddenly repent and regret their carelessness. However, the situation of breaking up has already been created, and even if they want to save the other party, they do not know where to start, nor do they know how to do it, especially for girls with thin skin. Girls are usually prone to misinterpretation and shouting to break up. In fact, they just want their boyfriend to value themselves more, but boys may be a bit slow. What they understand as a breakup is a simple separation of two people, so by chance, the two people split up like this. Girls will feel regretful afterwards and want to convey their apologies to the other party to achieve the goal of saving their ex boyfriend. What should be done specifically?
1. Get out of the shadow of heartbreak first. Since both parties have officially broken up, you are currently in a breakup state, so you must first pick yourself up to save your ex boyfriend. I think it's better to start over than to save my boyfriend. Before starting again, take time to heal your wounds. The pain of heartbreak is difficult to overcome, especially for girls. But after a breakup, only by quickly getting out of the shadows can one become calm.
2. Proactively admit your mistake, but it does not indicate your intention to reunite. After losing him, I realized his preciousness and wanted to catch him again, which was not too late. It is necessary for the ex boyfriend to know that he has seriously realized his mistake and is willing to pay the price for it. Reflect on what you did or didn't do that led to your separation. Sincerely apologize and then write it off. If there are any mistakes or responsibilities, you should take responsibility. Don't blame your predecessor, make excuses, and don't expect them to apologize or forgive you. It is highly possible that they were indeed wrong, but you cannot apologize on their behalf. You can only apologize for your words and actions, don't involve them. But apologizing and admitting mistakes are also tricky. Your ex boyfriend may have given up on you at this point and doesn't want to see you again, so you don't have to send yourself over and let him embarrass you. I suggest that girls can send it to each other in the form of letters or emails, and then periodically ask questions and wait for them to feel their presence. All content must be positive and meaningful greetings, rather than "resentful" begging, which will only distance the other party further. At the same time, don't be too straightforward in revealing what you want to conform to. The phrase 'the more you want something, the less you should care about it' has a certain truth. Being too concerned can only lead to passivity.
3. Cut off contact. After apologizing and doing all the things you need to do, it's best to leave his world for a period of time. For example, if you used to insist on sending him a text message every day to greet him, then stop sending it now. Make him suddenly realize that if he hadn't expressed anything, he might really have lost you. Of course, you can "reveal" your whereabouts through online platforms and let him know what you have been doing recently, but this has nothing to do with him. After a short period of time, he will definitely be in a hurry to proactively contact you.
