Post Date December, 03 2023
When feeling strong, the boyfriend suddenly asked for a closer relationship and promised him? Don't promise him? It's really disturbing. How should it be decided?
The following factors may be considered in advance:
Be loyal to feeling that some people say that men love because of sex, while women love because of love. Whether to have a relationship or not should be loyal to your own ideas instead of blindly agreeing to the other party's requirements.
Sex and commitment Having a relationship with your boyfriend doesn't mean you have only one commitment to stay together for life. Some men's feelings and sexual relationships can be separated. Besides, sex is not a condition of exchange. Don't think that having sex with the other party can bind the other party.
Can you believe it? To what extent do you know your boyfriend? Is the other party a trustworthy person? Will it be publicized after having sex with you?
Dealing with Emotions Many girls will have mood swings after their first relationship with their boyfriends. Do you have the ability to bear this mood?
Empathize with another person. If the other person empathizes with another person after your relationship, will you deny yourself because you are no longer a virgin? Make sure you have the ability to recover emotionally.
After the event, we are not afraid of ten thousand. Even if you take good safety measures, you can not guarantee that you will not cause "human life" or sexually transmitted diseases. If things really happen, can you deal with them independently, face and solve them?
Lifetime partner If the man who marries you in the future is not your present boyfriend, and he cares that you are not a virgin, can you face it?
In general, the body belongs to you. Whether you do it or not depends on whether you want it or not, not whether the other party wants it or not. A man who is worthy of your love will not force you. If he wants to use 'sex' as a condition to maintain everyone's feelings, you must really consider whether it is still worth putting feelings on this person; If the other party leaves you because you refuse to have sex, such a man is more worthy of your rareness!
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
