Happiness is the feeling that people's desires are fulfilled or partially fulfilled, and it is a spiritual pleasure. Happiness is the fulfillment of a person's personality through the social practice of creating living conditions, through the realization of personal, collective, and even human goals, ideals, and the cause of justice and public welfare.
Happiness is not just about living happily alone.
The ideal state is that when you are happy, everyone around you also feels happy. However, in order to pursue happiness, we may sometimes have to be selfish. There is a Chinese saying that goes, "If I don't take good care of myself, the sky will fall and I can't do anything
This may be considered a selfish idea, but on the other hand, we are also responsible for our own happiness.
We need to control our lives well. We have the opportunity to choose happiness, and the choice of happiness will also make our minds happy. However, sometimes we base our happiness on the pain of others. Perhaps this is inevitable, but this happiness will not last long.
The root of happiness should not be based on negative reasons or goals. For example, avoiding tasks that need to be completed indirectly puts your friends or colleagues at the risk of taking on this responsibility, while you snicker at this moment. This special source of happiness will not last long and will also damage your image.
Now let's look at this issue from another perspective. Would you feel happy if you were the person who has been 'bullied' all along but remains silent and patient with the extra work that comes with it?
I may even feel quite unfortunate for you. That's why we need to stand up and control ourselves well. We must choose to live happily! We do things that can make us happy, but we do not base our happiness on others. If a good man is willing to help others and enjoys what he does, he can be happy.
But is it truly fair if someone uses you and builds their happiness on the poor? I don't think so. I am thinking of a way to prevent you from becoming a 'good man' Mr. I hope we can control our life and happiness in our hands. Remember, each of us has a chance.