Morality, health... women receive more intangible social gaze. You may not be willing to be discovered carrying condoms with you, and you may also be embarrassed to buy condoms, but these are actions that are responsible for your own body. In the early stages of sexual relationship establishment, if you first propose to use a condom, or if you take out a condom, the other party may suspect that you are "often like this" and feel that you are more "professional". However, when establishing sexual relationships, you have to pay attention to your own life and health: will it pass on AIDS or herpes to you? You don't care about yourself, who cares? Who can care more about your future than you? It's really not right to use it, nor is it right to not use it.
Taking contraceptive pills is an effective contraceptive method. However, if this is your only contraceptive method, you may still be in some unexpected danger, such as sexually transmitted diseases. I suggest you use condoms. It not only provides contraception, but also effectively resists the invasion of some sexually transmitted diseases. At present, the number of women infected with HIV has sharply increased. For example, in 1994, 51235 women in the United States were already infected with HIV. Experts believe that condoms are the only physical barrier to protect men and women from the threat of HIV during sexual activity.
Of course, interrupting the foreplay while the passion is surging and getting a rubber product from a plastic packaging is a bit out of sync. You would say that using condoms is troublesome, and the man doesn't cooperate. But have you ever thought that getting infected with HIV is more troublesome. In sexual relationships, the expectations of both men and women do not completely overlap. These expectations are actually shaped by social culture. The use of condoms also reflects different behavioral patterns. For example, when you propose using condoms, the man may object.
He would say that's not comfortable enough and so on. Sometimes you are afraid of losing him or having any interests involved, and you will accommodate him. Women view 'sex' mainly from an emotional and relational perspective; Men, on the other hand, start from a physical perspective, focusing on instant gratification, willing to take risks and attack, and unwilling to be influenced by others. This is the difference between the sexes. In fact, the best way to avoid AIDS is to use condoms and reduce the number of sexual partners.