Post Date November, 16 2024
Human beings have been developing for tens of thousands of years, and sexual activity has played an important role. Performance represents many symbolic meanings, but it does not represent anything. Sex is itself, bringing happiness to people, satisfying their physiological pleasure, and helping humanity continue its descendants. Here is the gender knowledge organized by the editor for everyone. Let's take a look together!
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Sex is a topic that people avoid in their mouths.
But sex can actually be scientifically, candidly, and neutrally explained.
Today we will talk about sex.
Perhaps sex represents different symbols in the eyes of different people.
Actually, sex is just sex itself.
Liu Qiangdong went on a business trip to the United States and experienced the enthusiasm of top domestic celebrities for spreading rumors.
I usually don't pay much attention to gossip news, so I can't discuss with everyone whether Liu Qiangdong really doesn't know his wife's beauty or whether he has truly become a regular topic. We use this hot topic, which is usually very interesting to everyone, but we don't talk much about sex.
01 Sex is a cultural taboo
Not only in China, but also worldwide, it is a taboo expression for people to talk about sex. Although the color of food is the same, many people cannot easily talk about sex like they do about food.
The reason for this is because sex is first and foremost a symbol of cultural taboos.
For example:
Many men have a virgin complex in their hearts, and many women intentionally avoid discussing their sexual experiences when interacting with the opposite sex. Many people view the topic of public conversation as a very shameful thing.
The above types and manifestations essentially regard sex as taboo and sex. In this case, it represents the chastity and value of women. Sex is not only considered mysterious, but also to some extent dirty.
Everyone should have watched Animal World and similar documentaries. In these documentaries, we can see scenes of animals interacting. Faced with such a scene, few people say it looks awkward
On the contrary, these animals are very interesting. They are filled with the passion and vitality of life in order to attract the love, struggle, and pride of the opposite sex.
Here comes the question. Is it also sexual, why only people feel ashamed?
As mentioned earlier, the reason why sex feels ashamed is because we have endowed it with cultural connotations.
As early as in matrilineal clan society, there was a widespread worship of reproductive ability and the Earth Mother, and at that time, sexuality was not shameful. With the construction and development of a patriarchal society, men oppress women's personalities and demand that they belong to a subordinate position, while women rely on men.
Reproductive ability is a unique ability of women. In order to make women happy to be in a subordinate position, the male rights culture began to stigmatize women's reproductive ability (monthly events), leading to asceticism in the Western Middle Ages, and the East also has a cultural advocacy led by all evils.
This is sexual, for women, it represents shame, represents the formation of a dirty collective unconscious, and continues indefinitely with the development of society.
As a symbol of cultural taboos, sex actually brings many wrong guidance to people. For example, Pov dolls provide a very systematic introduction and exploration of women's identity and sexual subordination in second sex, which can be found by interested friends.
02 Sex is a power game
When Jackie Chan's Hong Kong sister Wu Qili cheated, he said that I just made the mistake that men in the world made. Now Dongge is being locked down, and netizens enthusiastically use this sentence to explain Dongge.
For women, why are men really interested and obsessed with sex or extramarital sexual behavior?
When Freud, the founder of the classical psychoanalysis school, was young, he found that when his patients started free association while half asleep on the couch, the fields they thought of were related to sex,
As a result, he proposed the famous theory of sexual drive
In other words, for many men, sexual activity is a way to unleash their aggression.
Of course, the attack here does not refer to the tension between animals, but rather to the psychological release of aggression.
For men, they can experience their sense of power, control, and aggression towards others through sexual activity, feeling their importance and acceptance, which are all manifestations and transformations of aggression.
Many men engage in one night stands or extramarital affairs, not necessarily because they do not love their wives or because their lovers outside are excellent. Most of the reason is that in the accumulated life, men do not experience their authority and importance within the marital relationship, and they need to balance their fatigue in extramarital sex.
For men, there are many ways to breathe from forced marriage.
03 Sex is emotional fusion
In their work psychoanalysis Companion Therapy, Davieshaf and Gileshaf mentioned that
Sexual relationships, as a physical and emotional partner, are the inheritance and development of early infant relationships, and sex is a practical method of emotional flow with internal clients.
We all know that establishing a relationship between a small baby and its mother is achieved through breastfeeding, mother's caressing, and hugging. This process not only showcases the baby's body, but also demonstrates the interaction of the relationship, experiencing whether they are important and whether they accept it. This is a mutual confirmation process, which Winnicott referred to as the "heart".
A person develops into an adult from a young age and once again experiences this relationship of physical and mental companionship, it is a sexual relationship.
A good sexual relationship can make each other feel accepted and satisfied, and it is compensation for those who have a bad mother-child relationship when they are young. In other words, if you have a great sexual experience, it may quietly help you complete the trauma repair of early life.
Like sexual relationships, experiencing setbacks and setbacks not only affects men's self-esteem and women's interests, but also has the potential to awaken inner customers and resonate with them.
As an adult, if you are not satisfied with your sexual life, the likelihood of experiencing internal rejection is high, in order to prevent yourself from accepting the externalization of sexual rejection.
From this perspective, sex is not only a physical satisfaction, but also a profound emotional fusion in psychology.
Roughly speaking, people who had good mother-child relationships when they were young also had relatively satisfactory sexual life. Unfortunately, if you have a bad early stage of life, the probability of sexual disharmony is higher than others.
Human beings have been developing for tens of thousands of years, and sexual activity has played an important role. Performance represents many symbolic meanings, but it does not represent anything. Sex is itself, bringing happiness to people, satisfying their physiological pleasure, and helping them continue their grandchildren.
Jumping, active, warm, great.
If there are fruits, enjoy sex well. If not; Well, I can't help you either.
