Post Date December, 03 2023
The wedding night is the beginning of a new life for couples, and it is also the way for couples to have sex for the first time. However, there are differences in gender awareness and concepts between men and women, and many newlyweds are unable to enjoy a happy first sexual experience. How can coordination achieve perfection in the face of this situation?
Due to differences in physiological characteristics, men have a strong desire to physically bond with their loved ones before marriage, and on their wedding night, they are prone to show impatience to have sex with their wives. Under this strong sexual impulse, sometimes rude and almost impolite behavior may also occur. Men are almost always in an active position in their first sexual encounter. Women, on the other hand, are not. They are only intoxicated with spiritual communication and spiritual integration for a considerable period of time. For sexual activity, there is a sense of shyness and tension in the mind. To reconcile this difference, we need to start with the following content.
1. Eliminating psychological barriers
Due to factors such as traditional beliefs, even couples who have been in love for a long time may experience a certain degree of shyness during their first sexual encounter, and this shyness is more pronounced in women than in men. Husbands should actively break this shy atmosphere through emotional words and caresses, and eliminate psychological barriers before sexual intercourse.
2. Relax Don't be nervous
Due to the lack of sexual knowledge and experience, newlyweds cannot teach themselves to have sex for the first time, and they are likely to have a sense of self tension psychologically. If the sex is not smooth, or the bleeding and pain caused by the rupture of the hymen will further strengthen this sense of tension. At this point, it is important to try to eliminate emotional interference and learn to relax oneself, which is crucial for successful first sexual intercourse and improving sexual pleasure. In addition, the husband should have gentle movements, be good at caring and preventing rudeness, which is even more important for relieving the tension of the newlywed wife.
3. Don't pursue perfection too much
If the first sexual encounter for newlyweds goes smoothly, everything harmonious and joyful will gain satisfaction and taste the happiness and sweetness of the newlyweds. If it is not smooth or difficult to achieve, some people will feel disappointed. If repeated, it will affect or even shake the emotional foundation of a happy marriage.
4. Newly married couples should summarize their experiences
At this point, it is important to remind newlyweds that a harmonious and satisfactory sexual life is influenced by various physiological and psychological factors, and cannot be achieved solely based on subjective desires. It is common for newlyweds to have a difficult first sexual encounter on their wedding night, and it usually takes 3-4 weeks for newlyweds to reach a level of satisfaction with their sexual activity.
Never be discouraged or disappointed because of temporary difficulties or dissatisfaction, and cannot complain about the incompetence of your wife or husband. The correct attitude is that both parties should lower their expectations for the first night, continuously summarize experience, improve methods, and closely cooperate to achieve satisfactory results in the shortest possible time.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
