Post Date December, 03 2023
With the acceleration of the pace of life, the impatience and utilitarianism of society, there are too many indistinguishable truths between people, to the extent that we are afraid of the term 'friend'. So, what kind of true friends are they, and what kind of friends do people need in their lives?
American writer Parr pointed out, "Don't expect a close friend to bring you everything you need." Another writer, Tom Lath, believes that the following eight types of friends are essential.
Achieve Your Friends
They will constantly motivate you and show you your strengths.
This type of friend can also be called a mentor type. They may not necessarily be your teachers, but they will definitely have rich experience in certain fields and can often provide you with many suggestions in various aspects such as career, family, and interpersonal communication. Having such friends in life can become your biggest psychological pillar and often become the "idol" who can "influence" you.
Support your friends
Always uphold you and praise you in front of others.
This type of friend can be described as' you help me, I help you ', encouraging each other and making each other a stepping stone for their growth. In a person's growth process, the support and encouragement of friends are the most precious. When you encounter setbacks, these types of friends can often help you share some of the psychological pressure, and their trust is precisely your "booster".
Like-minded friends
You have similar interests and are also the most likely person to get along with.
With them, you will have telepathy, commonly known as "tacit understanding". You often feel touched in your heart because your thoughts and words are similar to theirs. Interacting with them will help you continuously identify with yourself, and you can share your interests, life goals, or preferences with them. This stable feeling of 'sharing' will give you a sense of psychological security, because with them, you are more likely to achieve your ideals and grow happily.
Friends who connect and bridge
After meeting you, I will quickly introduce you to like-minded people.
These types of friends are "helpful" friends. When you are proud, their figures may not be common; When you are disappointed, they will appear in front of you in a timely manner. They are always willing to provide you with the most realistic support, showing you hope and opportunities, and helping you continuously receive positive psychological cues.
A friend who inspires you
Friends who are fun and can help you relax.
Some friends, when we have worries and troubles, the first person we want to confide in is them. Such friends can be great listeners and help you relax. In front of them, you don't have any psychological pressure and can always vent your "depression", allowing you to regain a balanced mindset.
A friend who broadens one's horizons
It can expose you to new perspectives and opportunities.
This type of friend is also essential for life. They can be called your 'encyclopedia'. These types of friends have a wide range of knowledge, perspectives, and interpersonal connections, which can help you gain many different psychological feelings, making you a person who stands tall and sees far.
A friend who guides you the way
Be good at helping you clarify your thoughts and seek guidance and advice from them when needed.
This type of friend is a "guiding light". Everyone has difficulties and needs, and once it is difficult to solve them on their own, these types of friends always consider your problems in the most timely and serious manner, and provide you with the most appropriate advice. When you are anxious or confused about your choices, it's best to talk to them, which may help you better manage your emotions, understand yourself, and clarify your direction.
Accompanying your friends
Always be the first to tell them good or bad news. They have been with you all along.
This kind of friend has a broad heart like the sea or mountains, and whenever you come to them, they will treat you warmly and always support you. They are friends who can make you feel satisfied and calm. Sometimes they don't need too much language, just silently accompanying you can calm your mood.
