How long is the appropriate time for sexual intercourse? Many people believe that the longer the duration of sexual activity, the better. A shorter duration proves that sexual ability is weak. Actually, this is a misunderstanding about sex. So how long is the appropriate time for sexual intercourse? Below, the editor will introduce it to you.
1、 The golden duration of sexual intercourse is 7-13 minutes
How long is the most perfect sexual duration? The answer given by sexologists is: 7-13 minutes.
According to reports, there is the first large-scale study conducted by a research institution on the duration of sexual activity. Researchers randomly surveyed thousands of people in the United States and Australia and found that substantive sexual activity (calculated from the start of sexual organ contact) is most suitable in 7-13 minutes. Most respondents, especially men, reported that having substantive sexual intercourse for more than 13 minutes increases fatigue and makes it difficult to recover physical strength; If it takes less than 7 minutes, there will be a sense of unfinished business.
It is said that this study is aimed at making many people understand that the claim that 'perfect sex takes longer and longer' is nonsense. The research leader explained that people always have unrealistic "assumptions" about sex. For example, men should have thick and sturdy y stems, and their erections must be firm and tireless throughout the night. This is clearly a wishful thinking, but many people take it for granted and even use it as a measure of sexual ability. As a result, even those without problems begin to worry about their sexual performance, which may lead to a series of sexual dysfunction over time
Men deliberately procrastinate during sexual intercourse, with the original intention of hoping that women can also enjoy longer periods of pleasure and ensuring that they can achieve wonderful heights. In fact, men should understand that there are many ways to satisfy women, including adding, changing, and enriching the content of foreplay. Before substantive sexual intercourse, it is more effective to elevate her appetite than monotonous mechanical movements.
In addition, men should learn more about their partner's sensitive areas and provide gentle and appropriate stimulation, which can better arouse a woman's desire and enable her to take more initiative in sexual intercourse. Women themselves should also communicate more with their partners and discuss issues that arise during sexual life, to make them understand that time is not an important factor in determining the quality of sexual intercourse.
Sexual life is a matter for two people, and only when both parties truly pay attention and listen to each other's needs can it undergo a qualitative change.