Post Date November, 17 2024
I have been with the old gentleman for about five years, including getting to know each other, dating, and getting married. In fact, at the beginning, everyone's marital life was still very harmonious, and even for this reason, our relationship became even closer. But suddenly, from one day on, people's sexual frequency became lower and lower, the most recent one being a year and three months ago.
It can be questioned without a doubt that he did not cheat after marriage because of his job responsibilities, and he was surrounded by men. Except for work hours, he stayed at home all other times, and he must stay at his post step by step during work hours. Everyone has a good relationship, often chatting and joking. In life, he takes good care of me and takes care of all the necessary things because I care about him and love her. The two of them often come and go together, so the neighbors and relatives and friends next door envy everyone for their good relationship; It's not fake, it's real. I am thirty-four years old, he is thirty-eight years old, and we rent our own house without any other influence. Sometimes when the old gentleman and I have to talk dirty jokes, we also touch each other every once in a while, but we just touch each other. Why did the husband reduce his sexual frequency?
Do you remember when I asked him: Is sex the key to marriage?
He responded to me that the essence of sex and spirit is very important. I have communicated with him more than once. Why are there few couples nowadays? What he responded to me was that his Ding Ding seemed to be broken. I said why don't everyone go see a doctor? He doesn't need it.
Most of what I'm talking about is pleading or regulations, and the vast majority of old gentlemen want to listen to me, but sometimes Scorpio's persistence will run out. I understand that he will also watch A~films and handle them himself. Now, when I have physiological needs, he also handles them himself.
I am very confused. It was originally love, but there was no emotional problem. How could this be? Why do two people have to deal with the strange necessity separately? I once observed him: Why don't we separate? He said, 'He doesn't need to, everyone has a good relationship. What is the reason for the separation?'?
We love each other, but without sex, can we really continue to love like this? Can marriage really last for a long time?
Maintaining emotions is the accumulation of a large amount of valuable items, not just love and sex.
Reply: Without love, one can continue, let alone without sex. Why is this so? Because in people's long-term life together, in addition to increasingly unimportant love and sex, they have also accumulated many valuable items. Love and sex have a characteristic of meeting their needs. When everyone doesn't look forward to seeing each other like their first girlfriend, they look forward to staying with each other for a long time. When the expectations are considered, the demands in the other person's heart disappear. This is also the reason why children take care of their parents for a long time and they don't know how to cherish them. So, what are the attractions and hopes of easily obtainable items?
There are a wide range of couples who have been married for more than ten years without having sex, but few dare to reveal and acknowledge it, which is why you cannot step out of this dilemma. Don't think that everyone's feelings are getting worse, but it's just that you don't want to have sex, and there's no such thing as expressing love. Without the hardships and twists of Faye Wong and Nicholas Tse, you are unlikely to have a rare Mir legend. Your husband told you that Ding Ding is bad, perhaps due to improper wording and a lack of impulsive distance. If you want long-term stability, it can make people's emotions fluctuate.
Yes, if you miss the sense of commodity in the early stages of love, everyone should exclude some hope, exclude others, exclude relationships, exclude hope of loyalty, just like excluding a bird cage. If you are a bird, do you have the confidence to hope that everyone can meet in the sky? Or do you think this blank space is? If you only believe in birdcages and birdcages, then birds like Ding will naturally break down and not fly high.
