How is the frequency of sexual activity considered normal? Sexual behavior is an important cause of emotional harm

It's not the first time I've sent a letter to a netizen, but the other half's sexual activity. Why is it normal?

Sexual activity is a basic requirement of the body. Being hungry and thirsty is the initial physiological need of people. This is also one of the reasons why human society must have a marital system. After all, if everyone follows their own physiological expectations without any standards or restrictions, will cousins and their families be kissed?

After entering marital life, the importance of marital life is particularly significant, and this awareness has existed throughout history. The ancient Roman writer Euripides once wrote: If human nature is harmonious, one will also feel everything, but if the couple's life is not harmonious, one's favorite things before will also feel disgusted. The scientific research results in Kinsey sexology reports often say that about 43% of divorcees are the cause of disharmony in their marital life. Sexual behavior is indeed one of the important reasons for endangering married life and relationships.

A happy couple's life is one of the important factors in maintaining a long-term marriage. What is the frequency of the couple's life and is considered a normal range for everything?

There are actually different stages and different answers.

Just getting together or getting married promotes a sense of mystery and has the most sexual activity. Most lovers or couples can basically say that they have married life every day, some even several times a day.

It wasn't until two or three years after marriage that we started, and because we already knew each other's physical structure and sexual habits, their physiological stimulation wasn't very significant. At this point, the frequency of marital life gradually decreases to 2-3 times a week, or even once a week.

At the beginning of a woman's pregnancy, the frequency of their sexual activity suddenly decreased due to the troubles during pregnancy. Even after childbirth, due to the repair status of female wounds, the fatigue of newborn babies cannot be repaired for normal sexual life. Many netizens say that at birth, taking care of the baby every day is already tiring, with poor rest, making it difficult for couples to cooperate with their husbands in their daily lives. In the long run, I am used to such a sexless marriage. Even if I occasionally have sexual desire, I don't know how to talk to my husband.

In fact, no matter which stage you are in, the frequency of sexual activity must be the result of communication and discussion between the two. Because everyone's physiological condition is different, the necessary frequency is also different. Some people are born with a strong libido, and those who believe that daily couples must have a decreased libido are disliked twice a month. Therefore, in such communication, it is recommended to grasp each other before getting married. If the sexual frequency between two people is not suitable after marriage, the harmony of life after marriage may be greatly affected.

However, if the frequency is only inconsistent in stages, it can actually assist in handling. Husbands should understand that their wives allocate more tasks at home to alleviate their work pressure in life. Of course, the wife has more sexual interest in the sexual life of the couple. Two people can also agree on a time to create an atmosphere, and boys should cooperate with girls for sex, and care about the female experience throughout the process... There is no need to prioritize their own enjoyment, come and go if you want.

If it were a married life like this, women would certainly not love.